# Size being an issue **URL:** \ **Category:** šŸ‘ļø Body image\ **Created:** [January 3, 2025, 6:54pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500 "2025-01-03T18:54:03Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mutual-moccasin-kingfisher](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/mutual-moccasin-kingfisher/32/479507_2.png) [@mutual-moccasin-kingfisher](https://community.mymojo.com/u/mutual-moccasin-kingfisher)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2025, 6:54pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/1 "2025-01-03T18:54:04Z")
I feel like a lot of issues come from size I only have about 5" and thereā€™s nothing i can do about it. Are there ways to get over this? ---
**Author:** ![driving-black-reptile](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/90ced4/32.png) [@driving-black-reptile](https://community.mymojo.com/u/driving-black-reptile)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2025, 7:39pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/2 "2025-01-03T19:39:30Z")
Size does not matter. Remember this: 1/ they can push out a 10 pound baby. 5" or 12" doesnt make a difference. Work on seducing them before hand. Massage them. Pay attention to them. 2/ have you seen all the HOT lesbians? Some of them are dating UGLY lesbians that look like guys without dicks! If these hotties are satisfied with no dick, many women are satisfied with 5" ---
**Author:** ![superb-fuchsia-asp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e5b9ba/32.png) [@superb-fuchsia-asp](https://community.mymojo.com/u/superb-fuchsia-asp)\ **Post date:** [January 4, 2025, 2:30am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/3 "2025-01-04T02:30:54Z")
Iā€™ve only been able to F my gf with a 70% softee roughly your size a few times in 6 monthsā€¦ Mostly I give pretty good oral, she loves my fingers and foreplay is usually 20-40 minutesā€¦ Im a tease. She gets sooo horny during foreplay and oral. I usually explore her a lot during foreplay. In 2 recent sessions, Iā€™ve found she likes her feet played with and her lil ass tonguedā€¦ Sheā€™s begging me to go to her doorbell. Once I finally do, (tongue or fingersā€¦) sheā€™s ready for multiple Oā€™s. Iā€™ve lost count sometimes.šŸ•¶ Donā€™t get me wrong, I wanna F her regularly! But sheā€™s told me multiple times that if it doesnā€™t happen , sheā€™s šŸ’Æ ok with what weā€™re doing! That takes a lot of pressure off me! ---
**Author:** ![zealous-moccasin-dragon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/85e7bf/32.png) [@zealous-moccasin-dragon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/zealous-moccasin-dragon)\ **Post date:** [January 4, 2025, 6:20pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/4 "2025-01-04T18:20:58Z")
As a gay guy I can tell you that I donā€™t care about size. Itā€™s the person attached that provides the attraction, excitement and fun. I feel more relaxed with a smaller cock: itā€™s not as much of a challenge! ---
**Author:** ![shaky-aquamarine-python](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/34f0e0/32.png) [@shaky-aquamarine-python](https://community.mymojo.com/u/shaky-aquamarine-python)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2025, 4:18am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/5 "2025-01-09T04:18:44Z")
As a gay man with an average penis (also 5ā€), Iā€™ve navigated this issue myself. If Iā€™m feeling insecure about my dick size, Iā€™ll either not get an erection or my erection wont last. So Iā€™ve had to work on accepting my body, including my penis size as is. Honestly, doing naked yoga and nudism in general with other gay men has helped me a lot, as Iā€™ve seen there are all kinds of sizes, shapes and colors. Iā€™ve also realized that if Iā€™m about to have sex with someone, that means weā€™ve created a connection that supersedes either his or my dick size. Thanks for sharing, and best of luck. ---
**Author:** ![foreign-amber-carp](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/foreign-amber-carp/32/457716_2.png) [@foreign-amber-carp](https://community.mymojo.com/u/foreign-amber-carp)\ **Post date:** [January 9, 2025, 2:48pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/6 "2025-01-09T14:48:53Z")
5ā€ is a very normal penis size. Most studies put the average around 5.5ā€¦ porn selects for monsters for visual impact. Youā€™re too! Believe in yourself šŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![popular-tomato-silverfish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/a9a28c/32.png) [@popular-tomato-silverfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/popular-tomato-silverfish)\ **Post date:** [January 10, 2025, 3:16am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/7 "2025-01-10T03:16:01Z")
It should be fine most women donā€™t want a huge one. ---
**Author:** ![fit-brown-ferret](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/fit-brown-ferret/32/262104_2.png) [@fit-brown-ferret](https://community.mymojo.com/u/fit-brown-ferret)\ **Post date:** [January 10, 2025, 4:04am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/8 "2025-01-10T04:04:56Z")
Angionmethod. Your welcome ---
**Author:** ![superb-fuchsia-asp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e5b9ba/32.png) [@superb-fuchsia-asp](https://community.mymojo.com/u/superb-fuchsia-asp)\ **Post date:** [January 10, 2025, 4:19am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/9 "2025-01-10T04:19:26Z")
Itā€™s funny. Just last night my gf told me that my cock is perfect for her mouth and pussy. She doesnā€™t gag on it and sex with past boyfriends was painful. Iā€™m not a big guy at all so it was great to hear that she is satisfied. ---
**Author:** ![mutual-salmon-crab](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a9a28c/32.png) [@mutual-salmon-crab](https://community.mymojo.com/u/mutual-salmon-crab)\ **Post date:** [January 10, 2025, 9:55am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/10 "2025-01-10T09:55:20Z")
Woman go crazy with a 2 inch finger and the right stimulation, so 5ā€ is plenty. Donā€™t worry, youā€™re as big as most of the men on this plant. ---
**Author:** ![extended-crimson-gazelle](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/extended-crimson-gazelle/32/455462_2.png) [@extended-crimson-gazelle](https://community.mymojo.com/u/extended-crimson-gazelle)\ **Post date:** [January 12, 2025, 9:46pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/11 "2025-01-12T21:46:20Z")
I donā€™t think girls usually care about size. I make my girl orgasm by entering and leaving her very, very, very slowly, I do. It even enter fully with my normal sized dick. For her itā€™s all about the ā€šinā€˜ and ā€šoutā€˜ push and pull. ---
**Author:** ![mute-amber-lemming](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/47e85d/32.png) [@mute-amber-lemming](https://community.mymojo.com/u/mute-amber-lemming)\ **Post date:** [June 19, 2025, 7:26am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/12 "2025-06-19T07:26:27Z")
> [@superb-fuchsia-asp](#): > > Mostly I give pretty good oral, she loves my fingers and foreplay is usually 20-40 minutesā€¦ Im a tease. She gets sooo horny during foreplay and oral. I usually explore her a lot during foreplay. In 2 recent sessions, Iā€™ve found she likes her feet played with and her lil ass tonguedā€¦ Sheā€™s begging me to go to her doorbell. Once I finally do, (tongue or fingersā€¦) sheā€™s ready for multiple Oā€™s. Iā€™ve lost count sometimes.šŸ•¶ Since sheā€™s totally satisfied even without intercourse, do you think that changes the pressure or expectations on you during intimacy, or does it make you feel more free to focus on what really turns her on? ---
**Author:** ![anon67933775](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ee59a6/32.png) [@anon67933775](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon67933775)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2025, 2:20pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/13 "2025-06-22T14:20:08Z")
Youā€™re lucky at 5 inch. Iā€™m just under 4 and trying to penetrate and get hard is so difficult ---
**Author:** ![motionless-aqua-tarantula](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/motionless-aqua-tarantula/32/415051_2.png) [@motionless-aqua-tarantula](https://community.mymojo.com/u/motionless-aqua-tarantula)\ **Post date:** [June 25, 2025, 3:10pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/14 "2025-06-25T15:10:26Z")
Iā€™ve always considered myself to be small. In spite of that, Iā€™ve had girlfriendā€™s whoā€™ve loved sex with me. Iā€™m not bragging, but itā€™s true. My current girlfriend has told me how much she loves my cock and will suck it for as long as I want her to. I have an issue of other guys seeing my cock and taking the piss, but the girls donā€™t mind. Iā€™d say brush up on your oral and the rest will fall into place. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![anon80352517](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/439d5e/32.png) [@anon80352517](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon80352517)\ **Post date:** [June 25, 2025, 3:26pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/15 "2025-06-25T15:26:00Z")
Iā€™m about 9ā€ when Iā€™m fully hard and love it but unfortunately my girlfriend canā€™t experience as much because I rarely get hard with her. I found myself going on cam sites and showing off and would get hard from peopleā€™s reactions. I have cut that out and porn completely and working to resensitize my brain so I can use this thing to its full potential with my girlfriend! ---
**Author:** ![available-brown-tyrannosaurus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ce73a5/32.png) [@available-brown-tyrannosaurus](https://community.mymojo.com/u/available-brown-tyrannosaurus)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2025, 12:22am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/size-being-an-issue/8500/16 "2025-06-28T00:22:07Z")
Iā€™m not sure the forum rules exactly and Iā€™m not trying to be a dick, but bragging to a guy who is worried about his size about your 9 inches is pretty insensitive. Just sayin.