I watch porn as I want to see super attractive girls having sex that look ordinary and natural
I would say that porn is made to be fantastic and not real life. No porn shows a man loosing his erection or ejaculating in seconds. I believe that in some cases if you find a porn video that you find erotic and exciting it may seem like the sex life with your partner is less so in comparison and therefore less appealing. That is just my thoughts and not likely in all cases. That said if your partner is open to watching with you it may open up all kinds of sexual experiences.
I also feel it’s a coping mechanism
Excitement of the not allowed or shunned aspect of porn drives the excitement which is hard to recreate in conventional sex
Im surprised porn doesn’t affect our performance as much as I thought, but the way we think about it, might. I liked the Attraction + obstacle = excitement.
I think it depends on the person. Porn might not affect you the way it affects me.
It’s still hard to shake the myth that porn is a problem, but it’s clear that it’s how you use it that can be problematic
The research that’s currently out there is interesting. More lenient then I thought - I’ve seen vids that say porn causes cheap dopamine, which can in turn affect your relationship with sex..
It’s interesting to find out that porn doesn’t actually have an impact on sexual performance, even though that’s the common thought.
surprising how lenient they are about their research now
Am I big enough
That I should be able to make my partner cum every time from penetration sex
You should be able to make your partner cum when ever you want.
Am I hard enough
That every time has to be about penetration and her orgasm.
Excessive porn is the cause of my ED.
Porn has damaged my real sex life.
I wasn’t aware that the literature shows no links between porn use and sexual dysfunction. This makes me see some of my use as more reasonable.
I struggle to let go of the idea that more extreme kink interests will diminish my more vanilla sex life at home
That there is a right way to have sex, Get hard, penetration, moaning, finish. Its should be completely natural, sensational, individual