So, what sex myth do you struggle to let go of?

That guys can go for repeated rounds of sex over and over while staying hard

This covers a lot of my problems. I started using porn due to sadness and loneliness. It became a release. And I really struggle getting out of my own head and being in the moment during sex.

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That guys can maintain an election after finishing and go for multiple rounds.

This is also true for me. I use porn to cope with stress but also to cope with feelings of missing out. It’s far easier to watch other people have the sex I want to be having, rather than putting myself out there.

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Men are supposed to stay hard the entire time, cum on the spot and be able to go multiple rounds.

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That guys can get hard no matter what

That porn doesnt change what turns me on permanently

That there is no evidence of physical harms caused by porn

I just feel that if you have been alone for a long time that masturbation desensitises your dick. It doesn’t feel like good practice for sex

I’ve been quite skilled at giving partners pleasure but they almost never take the time and effort to give me the same level of pleasure. Watching porn and masturbating feels empowering like I can have the sex I want but I have to do it myself

A big myth that I had quite well convinced myself of, is that too much masterbation will simply slowly kill your dick, your libido, your sensitivity and your testosterone.

Yeah this performative side comes out

A myth I struggle to let go of is that I’m supposed to be rock hard the moment we start making out.

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Bro I literally thought of the same thing, always the saying that it kills your dick slowly and that too much of it lowers testosterone and all that jazz

That you have to go multiple rounds and last a long time. Still shocks me that sex is normally lasts about 8 minutes

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This is the first time I’m learning that it’s not true

I’m not truly convinced. I’m not sure one study is enough for me

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Visualisation of porn to help cum is something I regularly do

Visualisation, the intensity, physique of pornstars

All the pointers really hit home for me