# Soft penis pleasuring question **URL:** \ **Category:** šŸ† Erection issues\ **Created:** [June 17, 2024, 9:31pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/soft-penis-pleasuring-question/6396 "2024-06-17T21:31:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![spatial-fuchsia-ermine](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/spatial-fuchsia-ermine/32/446429_2.png) [@spatial-fuchsia-ermine](https://community.mymojo.com/u/spatial-fuchsia-ermine)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2024, 9:31pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/soft-penis-pleasuring-question/6396/1 "2024-06-17T21:31:20Z")
Stupid question maybeā€¦ But is it the point to actually try to stimulate it? Or like just look at and feel the soft penis? I meant it called pleasuringā€¦ but you are not supposed to get hard right? Likeā€¦ can I do this wrong? šŸ˜… ---
**Author:** ![zeroth-chocolate-tiglon](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/zeroth-chocolate-tiglon/32/447751_2.png) [@zeroth-chocolate-tiglon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/zeroth-chocolate-tiglon)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2024, 10:02pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/soft-penis-pleasuring-question/6396/2 "2024-06-17T22:02:57Z")
My understanding is to look, touch, explore and pleasure it without getting hard. If you start to get to hard wait for it to go down. I remember reading if you get semi enjoy, it but to hard - wait for it to go down. (I could be wrong but thatā€™s what I thought it meant) I have found if I start to get too hard the reverse kegal and breathing helps it go down and itā€™s good to watch it go soft and connect it with those exercises. This exercise feels a bit strange in the beginning but gets easier and helps you become OK with a soft penis. ---
**Author:** ![spatial-fuchsia-ermine](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/spatial-fuchsia-ermine/32/446429_2.png) [@spatial-fuchsia-ermine](https://community.mymojo.com/u/spatial-fuchsia-ermine)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2024, 10:20pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/soft-penis-pleasuring-question/6396/3 "2024-06-17T22:20:31Z")
Well I actually havenā€™t felt strange doing it. Iā€™m pretty open minded. But I wasnā€™t sure if I should just be touching an looking, or actually try to pleasure the soft penis, but than try to nog get hard. I hope that makes sense. But that k you for your reply ---
**Author:** ![secret-indigo-wolverine](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/secret-indigo-wolverine/32/448427_2.png) [@secret-indigo-wolverine](https://community.mymojo.com/u/secret-indigo-wolverine)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2024, 10:27pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/soft-penis-pleasuring-question/6396/4 "2024-06-17T22:27:31Z")
The goal of the exercise is to desensitize your mind to your soft penis. The soft penis might be a trigger for negative thoughts so we want to get to a point where youā€™re perfectly comfortable and even pleased with your soft penis. Seeing it should be totally neutral and even pleasing in the sense of ā€œIā€™m a man and I have a penis and sometimes itā€™s soft and thatā€™s great!ā€ ---
**Author:** ![zeroth-chocolate-tiglon](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/zeroth-chocolate-tiglon/32/447751_2.png) [@zeroth-chocolate-tiglon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/zeroth-chocolate-tiglon)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2024, 10:35pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/soft-penis-pleasuring-question/6396/5 "2024-06-17T22:35:43Z")
Thatā€™s great way to explain it. ---
**Author:** ![zeroth-chocolate-tiglon](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/zeroth-chocolate-tiglon/32/447751_2.png) [@zeroth-chocolate-tiglon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/zeroth-chocolate-tiglon)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2024, 10:40pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/soft-penis-pleasuring-question/6396/6 "2024-06-17T22:40:21Z")
It has just occurred to me this morning that maybe if I start to get too hard and have to wait for it to go soft that I should pause the timer then restart when I recommence so I get the full 10 mins whilst soft. ---
**Author:** ![spatial-fuchsia-ermine](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/spatial-fuchsia-ermine/32/446429_2.png) [@spatial-fuchsia-ermine](https://community.mymojo.com/u/spatial-fuchsia-ermine)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2024, 5:00pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/soft-penis-pleasuring-question/6396/7 "2024-06-18T17:00:35Z")
Is there an easy way to find this discussion back? Now i have to scroll down and look