# Some improvement, what next?

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/some-improvement-what-next/6734>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [July 12, 2024, 7:47pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/some-improvement-what-next/6734 "2024-07-12T19:47:40Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 3\
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**Author:** ![radical-chocolate-cicada](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/radical-chocolate-cicada/32/455725_2.png) [@radical-chocolate-cicada](https://community.mymojo.com/u/radical-chocolate-cicada)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2024, 7:47pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/some-improvement-what-next/6734/1 "2024-07-12T19:47:40Z")

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So, I have recently started dating again after a while. I lost a lot of weight over the year and this has certainly still left me with some confidence issues. The first time I tried to have sex with a new girl I’d been seeing I had drunk too much and put my lack of performance down to this. We tried again a couple days later in the morning but when I went to grab a condom I lost my erection. This was quite upsetting and so next time we hooked up I took sildenafil. I just wanted some confidence and it worked! I had an erection the whole time, although I never finished, but I put that down to drinking some more than anything else. I did find my mind wondering at some points which I want to work on, but now I’m left seeking some advice. I don’t want to take a pill every time, has anyone had similar experiences, using something to help them start to feel confident before moving on? What should my next move be?

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**Author:** ![artificial-teal-panther](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/artificial-teal-panther/32/410536_2.png) [@artificial-teal-panther](https://community.mymojo.com/u/artificial-teal-panther)\
**Post date:** [July 13, 2024, 1:32pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/some-improvement-what-next/6734/2 "2024-07-13T13:32:14Z")

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Go sober mate. You identify it as a problem and keep on doing it so its a scapegoat ! Dont use the pills its shoveling problems further. Balance and inner strength is you salvation! You can do it brother! Aim to have fun with the girl!

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**Author:** ![useful-lavender-pinniped](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/useful-lavender-pinniped/32/347244_2.png) [@useful-lavender-pinniped](https://community.mymojo.com/u/useful-lavender-pinniped)\
**Post date:** [July 13, 2024, 9:04pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/some-improvement-what-next/6734/3 "2024-07-13T21:04:34Z")

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I’m in the same boat as you with the pills. I don’t really know what the answer is. I’ve been trying to lower the dosage by cutting the pills in halves and then thirds. So that I slowly wean off it. In the meantime I’m increasing the amount of meditation that I do.

The pills give me so much confidence, because I KNOW it’s going to work and I feel so good about myself when I f\*ck for an hour straight. But just like you I also don’t always cum when I’m on the pills.

I think at there is no magic bullet.