# Starting the conversation again with my wife

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/starting-the-conversation-again-with-my-wife/5456>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Tags:** performance-anxiety\
**Created:** [February 5, 2024, 11:06pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/starting-the-conversation-again-with-my-wife/5456 "2024-02-05T23:06:54Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 2\
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**Author:** ![essential-blush-wallaby](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/essential-blush-wallaby/32/391556_2.png) [@essential-blush-wallaby](https://community.mymojo.com/u/essential-blush-wallaby)\
**Post date:** [February 5, 2024, 11:06pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/starting-the-conversation-again-with-my-wife/5456/1 "2024-02-05T23:06:54Z")

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It’s been 6 months since I had my problem out of no where. Went limp and my wife didn’t react well. Then it was 2 months later when I was expecting an encounter and couldn’t even get hard. She didn’t want to keep going. Tried to bring it up but she didn’t say much back when I told her I can get the first time it happened out of my head. She just said she feels like it’s something more. I haven’t brought it up again and it is eating at me. And I don’t know how to bring it up again. What to say

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**Author:** ![professional-brown-swan](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/professional-brown-swan/32/418945_2.png) [@professional-brown-swan](https://community.mymojo.com/u/professional-brown-swan)\
**Post date:** [April 5, 2024, 10:33am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/starting-the-conversation-again-with-my-wife/5456/2 "2024-04-05T10:33:41Z")

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It sounds like you need to be completely open and share your feelings on how she reacted. You can do it man