# Still no Orgasm after sex

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/still-no-orgasm-after-sex/6632>\
**Category:** 🏎️ Sex drive and libido\
**Created:** [July 5, 2024, 1:37am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/still-no-orgasm-after-sex/6632 "2024-07-05T01:37:15Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 4\
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**Author:** ![modest-lime-scorpion](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/modest-lime-scorpion/32/452360_2.png) [@modest-lime-scorpion](https://community.mymojo.com/u/modest-lime-scorpion)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2024, 1:37am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/still-no-orgasm-after-sex/6632/1 "2024-07-05T01:37:15Z")

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Recently my wife and I did the sensate couples message. After that we went to bed. The next morning we decided to make love. I was hard when we started and it felt great. She was able to have an intense orgasm before I entered her. When I entered her it was going pretty good, the. My inner critic started- and then I started thinking too much; is she wet enough, am I thrusting too hard, why am I going soft? It was enough for me to end our session, but we talked afterward and bout my wife an I were ok with it. I felt disappointed - that I didn’t orgasm, but not about our lovemaking. I need to build up my inner coach to prevent this from happening in the future. Any suggestions?

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**Author:** ![lost-red-pelican](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/lost-red-pelican/32/367211_2.png) [@lost-red-pelican](https://community.mymojo.com/u/lost-red-pelican)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2024, 2:42am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/still-no-orgasm-after-sex/6632/2 "2024-07-05T02:42:48Z")

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Just don’t think too much and start slow and build it nicely

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**Author:** ![permanent-yellow-blackbird](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/permanent-yellow-blackbird/32/446945_2.png) [@permanent-yellow-blackbird](https://community.mymojo.com/u/permanent-yellow-blackbird)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2024, 1:26pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/still-no-orgasm-after-sex/6632/3 "2024-07-05T13:26:55Z")

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Dude, honestly it sounds like a success. She orgasmed. You guys talked. She sounds incredibly supportive. You know it’s your inner critic just fucking with you. Stick with it! You got this.

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**Author:** ![mere-bronze-pike](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/mere-bronze-pike/32/365397_2.png) [@mere-bronze-pike](https://community.mymojo.com/u/mere-bronze-pike)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2024, 4:01pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/still-no-orgasm-after-sex/6632/4 "2024-07-05T16:01:06Z")

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This is my reason for mojo…so many ifs and buts running through my head during the act its a aex killer.