# Stuck between two problems **URL:** \ **Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\ **Created:** [September 6, 2024, 5:18pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/stuck-between-two-problems/7339 "2024-09-06T17:18:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![reluctant-emerald-aardvark](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/reluctant-emerald-aardvark/32/343520_2.png) [@reluctant-emerald-aardvark](https://community.mymojo.com/u/reluctant-emerald-aardvark)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2024, 5:18pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/stuck-between-two-problems/7339/1 "2024-09-06T17:18:27Z")
I’ve been struggling with sexual problems for a very long time. It started with premature ejaculation when i was a teenager and i basically avoided sex after the bad experiences. It meant that i didn’t have a girlfriend since i left University. I thought I didn’t really need a partner or sex to have a full life. After years, i figured that it was a bad and childish decision to hide from what harms you. I restarted dating two years ago and i had one partner but i couldn’t get hard at the first two encounters. She also felt bad because i think she thought that it was her fault too. Once i almost managed to do it with my morning wood, but as soon as i touched her, i had a rush to ejaculate and my erection went away. I always tried to explain that i’m a nervous guy and it had happened to me before. That’s when i found this app (previous version). Due to I feel very ashamed by this, i was happy that i didn’t have to talk with a stranger face-to-face about my problem. I started using the app and i was very excited to fix this long-term problem of mine. But even if i used it for 2 months, i couldn’t get hard with her and she left me after two months. I stopped using the app when i got stuck at “get it hard by just touching” part. I couldn’t make it and it made me so frustrated that i lost my arousal too so i stopped it. And i’m here again after a year and give another chance to solve my problem. I feel like i’m stuck between no erection and premature ejaculation. I see the app is dealing with both now, so i’m excited. Let’s see! ---
**Author:** ![driving-chocolate-lungfish](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/driving-chocolate-lungfish/32/348690_2.png) [@driving-chocolate-lungfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/driving-chocolate-lungfish)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2024, 9:00pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/stuck-between-two-problems/7339/2 "2024-09-06T21:00:33Z")
It’s incredible how’s similar the problems are, I have more or less the same problem. Single currently all because I worry I can’t get it up or finish too soon so I just avoid letting women I like into my life. It hurts alot I don’ want them to think it’s them but then I don’t know if I fixed the problem. I’ve always had premature ejaculation but not with a condom so that was fine, but all it took for me was one time where I couldn’t get it up and then I can’t get it out of my head next time so it’s almost inevitable. But I want to make a change like you, I don’t want this to keep happening and i’m determined to make a change. Just keep yourself consistent bro and don’t be to hard on yourself (no pun intended) you’ll get through it friend 👍 ---
**Author:** ![extended-crimson-gazelle](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/extended-crimson-gazelle/32/455462_2.png) [@extended-crimson-gazelle](https://community.mymojo.com/u/extended-crimson-gazelle)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2024, 9:02pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/stuck-between-two-problems/7339/3 "2024-09-06T21:02:02Z")
But take it slow, very slow, that is why I do, and with out a partner so that you first can become comfortable with yourself and gain confidence