# Success but then a setback
**URL:** https://community.mymojo.com/t/success-but-then-a-setback/6986
**Category:** 🙌 Success stories
**Created:** [August 3, 2024, 6:29pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/success-but-then-a-setback/6986 "2024-08-03T18:29:10Z")
**Posts on this page:** 5
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### Author:  [@breezy-crimson-stoat](https://community.mymojo.com/u/breezy-crimson-stoat)
#### Post date: [August 3, 2024, 6:29pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/success-but-then-a-setback/6986/1 "2024-08-03T18:29:10Z")
Last week I was ready to sign off from Mojo… because I felt genuinely fixed…… I’ve been on 6 months , but I was super positive because of this amazing app…. Honestly chaps it is a game changer.
Then me and my girl had a major argument and she shattered my confidence…. I am concerned that I won’t be able to NOT think about it when we’re next having sex.
It feels like lm back before square one.
I’m hoping I can relax, it’s not about the inner critic, because she was pretty f-ing cruel… and completely out of order, but we were both a bit high and it got ugly .
I’m just venting I suppose… but I’m unhappy and annoyed and upset… and this app is really good and I was really rocking …a decent sex life… then boom… I’m close to walking away… but when we’re good we are amazing… ahhhhggghh
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### Author:  [@sacred-copper-cephalopod](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sacred-copper-cephalopod)
#### Post date: [August 3, 2024, 7:13pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/success-but-then-a-setback/6986/2 "2024-08-03T19:13:31Z")
Hats off to you for remaining on the app. I view it as great therapy in addition to helping achieve longer lasting and harder erections.
I feel like arguments with my wife subconsciously affect my performance in bed. When that happens, I continue to be affectionate toward her without penetration in view. That helps alleviate a lot of the pressure. And within a few days, I find myself rock
hard, ready to bang again. It neeeeeds to come naturally though. Forcing sex when your body isn’t cooperating will make matters worse from my experience.
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### Author:  [@breezy-crimson-stoat](https://community.mymojo.com/u/breezy-crimson-stoat)
#### Post date: [August 3, 2024, 9:08pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/success-but-then-a-setback/6986/3 "2024-08-03T21:08:11Z")
Man… thanks for that… that’s why we’re here ….
Good advice… I’m already calmer…
Cheers !
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### Author:  [@noisy-white-lizard](https://community.mymojo.com/u/noisy-white-lizard)
#### Post date: [August 5, 2024, 6:35pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/success-but-then-a-setback/6986/4 "2024-08-05T18:35:56Z")
What I feel is important here is you know you got to that good place once, which should add to your confidence that you can get there again. I don’t know that there is a “fixed” state, but you can learn tools to recover from unexpected incidents like this one
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### Author:  [@breezy-crimson-stoat](https://community.mymojo.com/u/breezy-crimson-stoat)
#### Post date: [August 5, 2024, 8:50pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/success-but-then-a-setback/6986/5 "2024-08-05T20:50:28Z")
Many thanks for your comments…
For the record, when we had sex, after my first message, I managed to keep it together and “finished the job”
Like you said… I managed to hold on to the belief, I’d been confident before… and I can be again… so the app came good.
Anyway the journey continues, but thanks again for your comments.
Good luck…