# Suddenly struggling

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/suddenly-struggling/9037>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [April 9, 2025, 4:02pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/suddenly-struggling/9037 "2025-04-09T16:02:31Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 3\
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**Author:** ![desirable-gray-roadrunner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e9bcb4/32.png) [@desirable-gray-roadrunner](https://community.mymojo.com/u/desirable-gray-roadrunner)\
**Post date:** [April 9, 2025, 4:02pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/suddenly-struggling/9037/1 "2025-04-09T16:02:31Z")

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In recent weeks, I’ve really started to get into my own head. I’ve never had any kind of issues (at least I thought) but just found it really difficult to finish from intercourse.

Whereas I initially made progress, I’ve fallen off a bit of a cliff. I’ve now started panicking more when I don’t get hard. I feel a weird kind of shame about not being in the mood for sex.

I know the things I need to get better at, but getting better at them is not proving to be a straightforward task .

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**Author:** ![immense-crimson-spoonbill](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/immense-crimson-spoonbill/32/450952_2.png) [@immense-crimson-spoonbill](https://community.mymojo.com/u/immense-crimson-spoonbill)\
**Post date:** [April 9, 2025, 5:15pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/suddenly-struggling/9037/2 "2025-04-09T17:15:37Z")

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hey man i hear you. i dont think i have the correct answer but i think something that might help is to be just honest about it with your partner. it removes a lot of that self pressure and they usually dont think its a big deal. i still struggle even after my honesty about it but it feels better to not feel like its something i need to hide or be ashamed about

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**Author:** ![sad-rose-shark](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/sad-rose-shark/32/335712_2.png) [@sad-rose-shark](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sad-rose-shark)\
**Post date:** [April 10, 2025, 12:06am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/suddenly-struggling/9037/3 "2025-04-10T00:06:25Z")

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It’s a real tough thing. Even though I’m still struggling- talking to my partner has really helped. She has been very supportive. I have really found that the fantasy activities has helped with my libido.