# Tell us — what are the best moves for giving a woman pleasure? **URL:** \ **Category:** ❓ Course questions\ **Created:** [September 8, 2022, 7:04pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326 "2022-09-08T19:04:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 23
**Author:** ![classic-peach-bedbug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4491bb/32.png) [@classic-peach-bedbug](https://community.mymojo.com/u/classic-peach-bedbug)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2025, 2:06am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/442 "2025-04-15T02:06:16Z")
A lot of kisses all over gradually closing in on the sexually sensitive places ---
**Author:** ![blushing-lime-lark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/53a042/32.png) [@blushing-lime-lark](https://community.mymojo.com/u/blushing-lime-lark)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2025, 10:00pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/443 "2025-04-15T22:00:48Z")
Kissing all over and touching all over simultaneously. Not too forceful but not too gently either ---
**Author:** ![known-green-cobra](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/known-green-cobra/32/380366_2.png) [@known-green-cobra](https://community.mymojo.com/u/known-green-cobra)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2025, 8:53am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/444 "2025-04-16T08:53:25Z")
Kissing their neck then slowing using my fingers ---
**Author:** ![zoophagous-yellow-echidna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/d2c977/32.png) [@zoophagous-yellow-echidna](https://community.mymojo.com/u/zoophagous-yellow-echidna)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2025, 9:03pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/445 "2025-04-16T21:03:34Z")
Stroking slowly whilst kissing ---
**Author:** ![electronic-copper-parrot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/35a633/32.png) [@electronic-copper-parrot](https://community.mymojo.com/u/electronic-copper-parrot)\ **Post date:** [April 18, 2025, 10:48am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/446 "2025-04-18T10:48:50Z")
Massaging a woman legs and back before sex ---
**Author:** ![anon91653286](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e480ec/32.png) [@anon91653286](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon91653286)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2025, 5:32am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/447 "2025-04-19T05:32:42Z")
Maintaining focus kissing and getting in the same rhythm while exploring her body, stroking, biting, groping, looking for positive feedback. And not focusing too much when I get a strong response in an area, continue to tease those areas and build anticipation and not going straight for them all the time ---
**Author:** ![informal-jade-egret](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8797f3/32.png) [@informal-jade-egret](https://community.mymojo.com/u/informal-jade-egret)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2025, 5:26am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/448 "2025-04-20T05:26:57Z")
I’ve kind of learned a light massage first helps to warm her up ---
**Author:** ![husky-scarlet-mockingbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/eb8c5e/32.png) [@husky-scarlet-mockingbird](https://community.mymojo.com/u/husky-scarlet-mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2025, 3:35pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/449 "2025-04-20T15:35:43Z")
Talking personally and making them laugh. ---
**Author:** ![grand-salmon-tarsier](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ad7895/32.png) [@grand-salmon-tarsier](https://community.mymojo.com/u/grand-salmon-tarsier)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2025, 12:42am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/450 "2025-04-22T00:42:15Z")
Kissing for a few minutes to start. Touching the breast getting near the nipples without touching them until they get hard. Licking her clit with a flat tongue. Put pressure on the opening of her vagina with your fingers without going inside until she begs you to. ---
**Author:** ![friendly-green-seahorse](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/friendly-green-seahorse/32/386165_2.png) [@friendly-green-seahorse](https://community.mymojo.com/u/friendly-green-seahorse)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2025, 3:28am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/451 "2025-04-23T03:28:24Z")
Try polka dots but with kissing and licking , get ever so close to the clit but back off until she can’t take it anymore. ---
**Author:** ![cautious-amethyst-smelt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@cautious-amethyst-smelt](https://community.mymojo.com/u/cautious-amethyst-smelt)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2025, 7:25am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/452 "2025-04-23T07:25:31Z")
I like to kiss up the leg and inner thigh, tease her pussy by letting her feel you breathe on it but don’t go in for it right away. ---
**Author:** ![realistic-aqua-cobra](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/realistic-aqua-cobra/32/276210_2.png) [@realistic-aqua-cobra](https://community.mymojo.com/u/realistic-aqua-cobra)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2025, 10:16pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/453 "2025-04-23T22:16:54Z")
Holding her closely whilst I’m running her vibrator slowly up and down her boobs and stomach ---
**Author:** ![eager-blush-rodent](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/3e96dc/32.png) [@eager-blush-rodent](https://community.mymojo.com/u/eager-blush-rodent)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2025, 12:55pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/454 "2025-04-24T12:55:17Z")
Kissing her neck gently while you play with her nipples and slowly move ya other hand down to her clit ---
**Author:** ![asleep-red-piranha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ce73a5/32.png) [@asleep-red-piranha](https://community.mymojo.com/u/asleep-red-piranha)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2025, 4:20am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/455 "2025-04-28T04:20:40Z")
A strong firm hold of their wrists or neck or hips to show control and that want drives them nuts ---
**Author:** ![testy-sapphire-porpoise](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bb73d2/32.png) [@testy-sapphire-porpoise](https://community.mymojo.com/u/testy-sapphire-porpoise)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2025, 8:45pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/456 "2025-04-29T20:45:57Z")
Focusing on other parts of their body besides just their vagina, kissing their ears, grabbing their breasts ---
**Author:** ![geographical-turquoise-asp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ba9def/32.png) [@geographical-turquoise-asp](https://community.mymojo.com/u/geographical-turquoise-asp)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2025, 2:25am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/457 "2025-04-30T02:25:54Z")
Start with a massage and end with oral sex ---
**Author:** ![silent-beige-flea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a183cd/32.png) [@silent-beige-flea](https://community.mymojo.com/u/silent-beige-flea)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2025, 11:57am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/458 "2025-04-30T11:57:16Z")
Back massage while on top, if you get a boner let her sorta feel it on her back/leg. Then slowly kiss down her back then when you get to her ass, lift her ass up and start eating her out from behind ---
**Author:** ![slippery-maroon-unicorn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/94ad74/32.png) [@slippery-maroon-unicorn](https://community.mymojo.com/u/slippery-maroon-unicorn)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2025, 10:11pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/459 "2025-04-30T22:11:12Z")
Foreplay in the living room rather than the bedroom (less pressure) and the Carrying from a different room to the bed, slowly placing down rather than throwing. Getting on top and kissing her neck gently and kissing all the way down her body slowly, while moving back up again periodically as she thinks you’re getting close to the main area. Slowly taking clothes off while doing this and maintaining eye contact. Then kneeling off the edge of the bed rather than being on it and having her legs on my shoulders while I kiss all around and suck on the dips between her thigh and pussy. Then occasionally kissing her clit ever so gently. Then kissing up and down the inside of the thighs, teasing like this for as long as you can before slowly putting the flat of my tongue on her clit gently rather than the tip. From here I can make her cum within a minute by reading how fast or slow she wants as her legs are already shaking. Or I can edge her for 20 mins over and over and then it’ll be the most mind blowing, longest orgasm she’s had ---
**Author:** ![normal-teal-gayal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b5a626/32.png) [@normal-teal-gayal](https://community.mymojo.com/u/normal-teal-gayal)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2025, 1:19pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/460 "2025-05-02T13:19:19Z")
I found kissing around the vulva and thighs before moving to the clitoris helps relax my partner and move them to a good place ---
**Author:** ![extended-brown-ant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b487fb/32.png) [@extended-brown-ant](https://community.mymojo.com/u/extended-brown-ant)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2025, 12:28pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/461 "2025-05-03T12:28:07Z")
Kissing areas such as the neck, shoulders, ears and trailing downwards, alternatively working your way up their leg, along the thigh and avoiding clear erogenous zones to be a good way to start. [Previous page](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326.md?page=22) [Next page](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326.md?page=24)