# Tell us — what are the best moves for giving a woman pleasure? **URL:** \ **Category:** ❓ Course questions\ **Created:** [September 8, 2022, 7:04pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326 "2022-09-08T19:04:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 24
**Author:** ![shy-white-dragonfly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b5e925/32.png) [@shy-white-dragonfly](https://community.mymojo.com/u/shy-white-dragonfly)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2025, 8:33am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/462 "2025-05-04T08:33:54Z")
Ive found that the build up is key and not going straight to the clitoris. Its not about making them cum as quick as them giving the guy a handjob or blowjob. ---
**Author:** ![distinctive-lavender-mollusk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e19b73/32.png) [@distinctive-lavender-mollusk](https://community.mymojo.com/u/distinctive-lavender-mollusk)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2025, 9:06am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/463 "2025-05-05T09:06:13Z")
Slow build up. Kissing the body and waiting until you can tell they are super turned on before going in on the clitoris ---
**Author:** ![nuclear-chocolate-goose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/5f8ce5/32.png) [@nuclear-chocolate-goose](https://community.mymojo.com/u/nuclear-chocolate-goose)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2025, 12:00pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/464 "2025-05-05T12:00:19Z")
Foreplay and build up ---
**Author:** ![exuberant-coral-warbler](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ac91a4/32.png) [@exuberant-coral-warbler](https://community.mymojo.com/u/exuberant-coral-warbler)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2025, 2:53pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/465 "2025-05-05T14:53:32Z")
Vulva but also ears, surprisingly ---
**Author:** ![slim-emerald-heron](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/slim-emerald-heron/32/444358_2.png) [@slim-emerald-heron](https://community.mymojo.com/u/slim-emerald-heron)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2025, 9:14pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/466 "2025-05-06T21:14:56Z")
Gentle but firm pressure, not too fast ---
**Author:** ![current-gray-guineafowl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/35a633/32.png) [@current-gray-guineafowl](https://community.mymojo.com/u/current-gray-guineafowl)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2025, 8:32am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/467 "2025-05-07T08:32:38Z")
Teasing them by kissing and touching around the clit, brushing past it a little to heighten the anticipation. Even going along the inner thigh and the abdomen a little to create a wider area of sensation. Start slow and delicate, eventually zeroing in on the clit once she is already breathing a little heavier. ---
**Author:** ![certain-gray-nightingale](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/96bed5/32.png) [@certain-gray-nightingale](https://community.mymojo.com/u/certain-gray-nightingale)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2025, 9:44am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/468 "2025-05-07T09:44:00Z")
Baby oil and a full body massage! Working my fingers and fists around her body. When I’m finally between her legs, slow fingers, gentle kissing, thigh grabbing, tongue flicking. Her reactions are everything! ---
**Author:** ![wise-peach-dingo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/aca169/32.png) [@wise-peach-dingo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/wise-peach-dingo)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2025, 9:44am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/469 "2025-05-08T09:44:25Z")
Massage her body and then go down on her ---
**Author:** ![confident-brown-earthworm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/34f0e0/32.png) [@confident-brown-earthworm](https://community.mymojo.com/u/confident-brown-earthworm)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2025, 7:28pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/470 "2025-05-08T19:28:24Z")
Teasing ---
**Author:** ![historical-teal-lion](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/historical-teal-lion/32/222838_2.png) [@historical-teal-lion](https://community.mymojo.com/u/historical-teal-lion)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2025, 3:43pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/471 "2025-05-09T15:43:29Z")
There’s not just one recipe from them all, because each and every woman is very different, when it comes to erogenous zones, turns on, favour spots to hit, time taken for a proper arousal or to get wet, preferred ways and techniques to feel the touch of a man, proper timing to try anything with or on her, etc. And it depends also on the very moment you are into and how you two got there. As a general rule of thumb (but it may not be the same for any woman nor for the same woman in different situations or moments) it’s a good idea not to go straight to the point (clitoris or vulva) but indulge in some foreplay wherever else on her whole body, eventually also around and close to the vagina clitoris and labia but not on them at once. This can often help build arousal and the crave for sex and her man. ---
**Author:** ![continued-indigo-snake](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@continued-indigo-snake](https://community.mymojo.com/u/continued-indigo-snake)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2025, 4:53pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/472 "2025-05-09T16:53:02Z")
Teasing and fingering ---
**Author:** ![raspy-moccasin-ocelot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/aca169/32.png) [@raspy-moccasin-ocelot](https://community.mymojo.com/u/raspy-moccasin-ocelot)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2025, 11:17pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/473 "2025-05-09T23:17:23Z")
Fingering sucking on neck and boobs ---
**Author:** ![overseas-silver-dragon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/6f9a4e/32.png) [@overseas-silver-dragon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/overseas-silver-dragon)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2025, 4:49am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/474 "2025-05-10T04:49:15Z")
Foreplay and teasing ---
**Author:** ![conceptual-ivory-sheep](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/conceptual-ivory-sheep/32/382554_2.png) [@conceptual-ivory-sheep](https://community.mymojo.com/u/conceptual-ivory-sheep)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2025, 4:12pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/475 "2025-05-10T16:12:13Z")
Gentle strokes ---
**Author:** ![supreme-copper-hamster](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/supreme-copper-hamster/32/352560_2.png) [@supreme-copper-hamster](https://community.mymojo.com/u/supreme-copper-hamster)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2025, 4:47pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/476 "2025-05-10T16:47:11Z")
Foreplay, teasing, slow pace ---
**Author:** ![sleepy-tan-pigeon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/90db22/32.png) [@sleepy-tan-pigeon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sleepy-tan-pigeon)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2025, 9:00pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/477 "2025-05-10T21:00:08Z")
Oral ---
**Author:** ![sweet-coral-dolphin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e5b9ba/32.png) [@sweet-coral-dolphin](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sweet-coral-dolphin)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2025, 1:59pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/478 "2025-05-11T13:59:00Z")
Foreplay to get them wet first ---
**Author:** ![yielding-peach-bobcat](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/yielding-peach-bobcat/32/422330_2.png) [@yielding-peach-bobcat](https://community.mymojo.com/u/yielding-peach-bobcat)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2025, 7:55pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/479 "2025-05-11T19:55:14Z")
Massage ---
**Author:** ![increasing-white-turtle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/6de8d8/32.png) [@increasing-white-turtle](https://community.mymojo.com/u/increasing-white-turtle)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2025, 2:21am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/480 "2025-05-12T02:21:42Z")
Kissing their body, gently stroking the skin ---
**Author:** ![anon20583950](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/958977/32.png) [@anon20583950](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon20583950)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2025, 10:12pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/tell-us-what-are-the-best-moves-for-giving-a-woman-pleasure/3326/481 "2025-05-12T22:12:38Z")
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