I agree with everyone else, listening to her and doing what she likes
Ask her what she wants… but also listen to her responses to my moves… if she is enjoying it, be steady. If not, try a different angle.
The Clit using tongue and finger
I did not expect putting pressure around the vagina to feel good, I often found using my tongue gave the best pleasure, or pressing down on the stomach during penetration
Ask what she likes and pay attention to how she responds to what you do. My wife likes all the attention to be on her clit, but that’s not the case for all women.
I top using the pad of my finger or some times she likes the soft part of my big toe
Lightly touching the outer parts to increase blood flow to the vagina
I mean I have a vague idea of what to do but I haven’t really had a supportive partner to explore as much as I would like to.
Usually if something is going well I’ll keep doing that.
Not diving straight in. Lots of kissing, neck kissing, sliding my hands up and down her body moaning and dirty talk.
I kiss all around her vagina. Trace my tongue along her lips. Flick her clit before sucking it into my mouth.
Internal lips are a huge source of getting arousal, just asking my partner what she wants more.
It could be the neck, ears, kiss, breast, and vulva
Kissing, sometimes for an hour or more. Kissing and breathing on her neck, specially her left side since she’s right-handed also turns her on a lot. Same for kissing her back. She loves it. And of course, oral too.
Kissing her neck and behind the ears,
Kissing passionately, kissing up and down their body, teasing them with your lips
Slow to start, and edging towards the clitoris very gently. Then often side to side. Tongue is better when it’s very sensitive
I use my tongue starting my licking the inner thighs and slowly moving inward toward her vulva and vagina. I basically lick and kiss everything else before fingering her and pressing on her g-spot. I save the clitoris for dead last since otherwise she is waaaay too sensitive.
All this, of course, comes after other foreplay on the body (lips, neck, breasts, etc.). It’s all about the anticipation of the pleasure centers.
My partner likes some rough play and I alternate between soft and tender kisses and licks all over their body and sharing the warmth of our bodies and she gets really turned on when I nibble on her nipples. I basically work my way all the way down to her vulva and around it like the legs and stuff and there also alternate between gentle licks and touches and breathing to little nibbles and sucking the clitoris into my mouth, rough large area licking with the tongue.
Talking hold of there hands, pinning them against the wall or the bed with one of yours whilst kissing them and touching them with your free hand
Holding the back of the neck and playful biting during