# Thoughts and opinions

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/thoughts-and-opinions/11348>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [September 7, 2025, 6:54pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/thoughts-and-opinions/11348 "2025-09-07T18:54:12Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 2\
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**Author:** ![reduced-salmon-marmot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/87869e/32.png) [@reduced-salmon-marmot](https://community.mymojo.com/u/reduced-salmon-marmot)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2025, 6:54pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/thoughts-and-opinions/11348/1 "2025-09-07T18:54:12Z")

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So for the longest time I avoided sex because the first time I tried I couldn’t get an erection. I tried for the first time 5 years ago and haven’t tried since until this summer. I made out with a couple of girls and was able to get an erection but they did not want sex. Anyway last night I got super drunk and went back home with a girl and I was having sex with her for about 15 seconds and when we switched positions I went soft and got embarrased and just stopped so she gave me head for the rest of the time. Should I be scared to try again or is that normal? Would this be considered success even though the vaginal penetration didn’t last long?

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**Author:** ![geographical-aquamarine-sailfish](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/geographical-aquamarine-sailfish/32/349447_2.png) [@geographical-aquamarine-sailfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/geographical-aquamarine-sailfish)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2025, 7:36pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/thoughts-and-opinions/11348/2 "2025-09-07T19:36:55Z")

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It’s normal bro and I would consider it success. I had a similar experience and the same thoughts when I started having sex. The tools on this app can help you get past that initial performance anxiety