# To what extent are sexual fantasies part of your life and relationships? **URL:** \ **Category:** ❓ Course questions\ **Tags:** couples\ **Created:** [September 7, 2022, 4:39pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322 "2022-09-07T16:39:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 38
**Author:** ![intensive-beige-cod](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/edb3f5/32.png) [@intensive-beige-cod](https://community.mymojo.com/u/intensive-beige-cod)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2025, 1:56am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/741 "2025-07-15T01:56:44Z")
I do it a lot ---
**Author:** ![intellectual-scarlet-boa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/4bbf92/32.png) [@intellectual-scarlet-boa](https://community.mymojo.com/u/intellectual-scarlet-boa)\ **Post date:** [July 16, 2025, 7:54am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/742 "2025-07-16T07:54:47Z")
All the time ---
**Author:** ![varied-violet-opossum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/aca169/32.png) [@varied-violet-opossum](https://community.mymojo.com/u/varied-violet-opossum)\ **Post date:** [July 16, 2025, 9:48pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/743 "2025-07-16T21:48:47Z")
All of the time ---
**Author:** ![direct-scarlet-marmoset](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bb73d2/32.png) [@direct-scarlet-marmoset](https://community.mymojo.com/u/direct-scarlet-marmoset)\ **Post date:** [July 17, 2025, 2:56am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/744 "2025-07-17T02:56:56Z")
All the time ---
**Author:** ![generous-ivory-warbler](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/48db29/32.png) [@generous-ivory-warbler](https://community.mymojo.com/u/generous-ivory-warbler)\ **Post date:** [July 17, 2025, 7:56am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/745 "2025-07-17T07:56:03Z")
Actually I just realized I used to do it much more when I was on my high libido stage. This exercise showed me I should probably add more to my fantasies bank, and try to play with it much more. Right now are not too much part of my life but I’m really willing to make them more present ---
**Author:** ![witty-tan-guan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/eada6e/32.png) [@witty-tan-guan](https://community.mymojo.com/u/witty-tan-guan)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2025, 4:01pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/746 "2025-07-20T16:01:10Z")
I just remembered that I used to do this a lot when I was younger it was part of my flirting game I would be talking on the phone with a partner and we will get into fantasies just realize I need to start back. ---
**Author:** ![yummy-amber-cheetah](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/35a633/32.png) [@yummy-amber-cheetah](https://community.mymojo.com/u/yummy-amber-cheetah)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2025, 2:11am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/747 "2025-07-22T02:11:05Z")
In the past, they haven’t played that big of a role in my relationship; but I’d like to change that going forward as I grow and get to know myself better. ---
**Author:** ![increasing-orange-jackal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/b19c9b/32.png) [@increasing-orange-jackal](https://community.mymojo.com/u/increasing-orange-jackal)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2025, 11:21pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/748 "2025-07-24T23:21:31Z")
I remember i had a really early fantasy when i was a kid, before i even knew what an orgasm was. And now i just need to make more like those. Just this time go alot further with it. ---
**Author:** ![extensive-blush-dragon](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/extensive-blush-dragon/32/395719_2.png) [@extensive-blush-dragon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/extensive-blush-dragon)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2025, 5:19am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/749 "2025-07-28T05:19:07Z")
I really don’t know tbh, I had this one fantasy about my girlfriends cousin but each time I think about it I just think how big of a creep I would be in real life ---
**Author:** ![late-coffee-nightingale](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/late-coffee-nightingale/32/305933_2.png) [@late-coffee-nightingale](https://community.mymojo.com/u/late-coffee-nightingale)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2025, 4:15pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/750 "2025-07-29T16:15:08Z")
Never had a threesome and never mentioned it to my wife. But I would love to try it one day ---
**Author:** ![anon26820354](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a698b9/32.png) [@anon26820354](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon26820354)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2025, 3:57am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/751 "2025-07-30T03:57:18Z")
Not mutch…i just want to satisfy my partner in bed ---
**Author:** ![excellent-amber-crow](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/839c29/32.png) [@excellent-amber-crow](https://community.mymojo.com/u/excellent-amber-crow)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2025, 12:19pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/752 "2025-07-30T12:19:47Z")
Not much but occasional. I just want to be present enough to satisfy myself and my partner ---
**Author:** ![accepted-amaranth-cattle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/57b2e6/32.png) [@accepted-amaranth-cattle](https://community.mymojo.com/u/accepted-amaranth-cattle)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2025, 4:54am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/753 "2025-08-02T04:54:44Z")
Lately, I have been paying attention, and it seems to me that guys usually have that bank of fantasies, but I have never done that. When I am having sex, I try just to be aroused with what I am seeing and sensations… maybe that’s part of the problem… ---
**Author:** ![curly-indigo-parrot](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/curly-indigo-parrot/32/415239_2.png) [@curly-indigo-parrot](https://community.mymojo.com/u/curly-indigo-parrot)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2025, 4:56am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/754 "2025-08-06T04:56:41Z")
This is an area where I need to put in consistent work. I feel like I need to exercise my fantasy muscle a lot more to make it a robust tool in my erection tool belt. ---
**Author:** ![unexpected-crimson-crocodile](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/e19b73/32.png) [@unexpected-crimson-crocodile](https://community.mymojo.com/u/unexpected-crimson-crocodile)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2025, 2:16am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/755 "2025-08-07T02:16:41Z")
Very little. I blame porn from a young age for lacking the imagination in my own head. I would like it to become a more healthy habit. I wonder if erotica would help? ---
**Author:** ![relevant-salmon-buzzard](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/relevant-salmon-buzzard/32/455140_2.png) [@relevant-salmon-buzzard](https://community.mymojo.com/u/relevant-salmon-buzzard)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2025, 12:30pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/756 "2025-08-07T12:30:34Z")
Not at all ---
**Author:** ![foreign-brown-weasel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/7feea3/32.png) [@foreign-brown-weasel](https://community.mymojo.com/u/foreign-brown-weasel)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2025, 6:34pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/757 "2025-08-08T18:34:47Z")
I do have a lot of fantasies, some of which I have lived through ---
**Author:** ![exceptional-bronze-chipmunk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/90db22/32.png) [@exceptional-bronze-chipmunk](https://community.mymojo.com/u/exceptional-bronze-chipmunk)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2025, 11:42pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/758 "2025-08-08T23:42:25Z")
Not really, they seem like escapism to an extent. I’m willing to try if they help tho ---
**Author:** ![powerful-orange-marsupial](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/4af34b/32.png) [@powerful-orange-marsupial](https://community.mymojo.com/u/powerful-orange-marsupial)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2025, 1:04am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/759 "2025-08-09T01:04:15Z")
They’re an active part and my partner’s very into exploring them. Nothing too wild but we enjoy playing with all sorts of thoughts and spaces ---
**Author:** ![reliable-bronze-gopher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/f07891/32.png) [@reliable-bronze-gopher](https://community.mymojo.com/u/reliable-bronze-gopher)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2025, 10:35pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322/760 "2025-08-10T22:35:35Z")
I think it does help, to an extent, erotica. We’re similar in your views towards porn at a young age and found the Erotic Stories on the app have helped unlock what my real desires are outside of what porn had downloaded into me throughout all the years of consuming it. The fantasy in your head is what needs tending to. [Previous page](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322.md?page=37) [Next page](https://community.mymojo.com/t/to-what-extent-are-sexual-fantasies-part-of-your-life-and-relationships/3322.md?page=39)