I can ask her or tell her whatever I want. She’s usually down. It’s just hard for me to initiate the act.
My wife chooses a woman we both know and gets me to fantasise me fucking that woman while she is wanking my cock and encouraging me. Horny as hell with much trust and affection still after 40 years married. She understands men!
They feed my creativity and make me want to explore more
Not as much as I would like
A big part
Practicing and developing my fantasy bank will be key for me to rewire my arousal template away from porn
They havent been a big part of my life to date but I will start using them more
They have little been on my mind but I will practice to build up a bank for this
As far as fantasies go, I have a lot of situational fantasies (ex: fucking a hot executive boss, sex with a cheerleader, sex with a classmate) and my wife is becoming more open to dressing up.. can say my fantasies are coming to life.
They aren’t a large part but I’m confident that we can include them more as I know my fiancée is open to the idea