# Unable to get complete erection

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/unable-to-get-complete-erection/8161>\
**Category:** 🍆 Erection issues\
**Created:** [November 21, 2024, 8:57pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/unable-to-get-complete-erection/8161 "2024-11-21T20:57:46Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 3\
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**Author:** ![familiar-maroon-zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/858c86/32.png) [@familiar-maroon-zebra](https://community.mymojo.com/u/familiar-maroon-zebra)\
**Post date:** [November 21, 2024, 8:57pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/unable-to-get-complete-erection/8161/1 "2024-11-21T20:57:46Z")

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I mean it’s obvious in my mind why this is happening but thought it would be a good exercise to write it down…  
Currently trying for another baby with my wife of 7 years we already have 1 child although struggled to conceive due to wife’s PCOS.  
Every time her ovulation window comes up I know it’s time to perform and so my little fella doesn’t wanna play … This makes her feel unattractive she’s very body conscious anyway as am I at times …I tell her it’s not her and how much I love her and how much she means to me but I have begun questioning that now and whether I am just saying it. We recently had a rocky patch in our relationship where she found out I had been watching porn excessively (at every other day) and found I had subscribed to an OF page which hasn’t helped.

Suppose what I want your opinions on  
Is my erection issues down to  
1.Past porn use  
2.stress of trying to concieve  
3.Attraction toy wife

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**Author:** ![prime-emerald-falcon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/73ab20/32.png) [@prime-emerald-falcon](https://community.mymojo.com/u/prime-emerald-falcon)\
**Post date:** [November 21, 2024, 9:25pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/unable-to-get-complete-erection/8161/2 "2024-11-21T21:25:40Z")

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Similar boat here. 3 years in a relationship and can’t keep it up during see the past two times &n I question if I’m even as attractive to her as I was when we met or if it’s in my head due to the stress I put on myself to perform well. I would definitely say it is the stress you put on yourself and over thinking. Prob can play a factor if you get off 5x times a day to it and rather do that then with a real person. I watch porn or beat off just about every day or every other day since I’ve been 14 - well over a decade now & it’s never played a factor unless, only effected the quantity of sperm that came out.

Psychological is definitely what I would say is playing a part and the stress you’re putting on yourself.

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**Author:** ![familiar-maroon-zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/858c86/32.png) [@familiar-maroon-zebra](https://community.mymojo.com/u/familiar-maroon-zebra)\
**Post date:** [November 21, 2024, 9:53pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/unable-to-get-complete-erection/8161/3 "2024-11-21T21:53:36Z")

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Thanks for the reply.