Hey all,
I have been having this weird thing happen to me recently, and wondered whether anyone else had been in this position.
Around three months ago, I genuinely felt like I had āsolvedā the issues that led to me downloading this app. I was having the best sex I have had for many years with my wife, with good ejaculation control, and much firmer, more dependable erections. I couldnāt have been happier about it.
Fast forward to now, and I have randomly started going through a period of poor ejaculation control and low confidence in my erections again, despite the fact that I have had it proven to me that there isnāt a problem.
The only thing I can think is that Iāve had some stress with work, at home (teenage kids) and therefore a bit in my relationship, but it is just so frustrating.
Can anyone else relate to this?
I know it was never going to be a flat road but this just feels like such a backwards stepā¦
Iāve found its swings and roundabouts. Some months I surprise myself, others I feel a bit less confident. Something that worked for us is what we call roll the dice. If I say letās roll the dice, she knows Iām not 100% sure Iāll meet the need. If it doesnāt happenā¦meh. If it does, we crack on. Takes the pressure right off.
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I know the feeling of having one step forward and a couple steps back. Itās really disheartening. But donāt give up, keep working it at, youāve been there before and you can get back there
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Iāve had a similar experience. Through this app I felt like I had dealt with ejaculation control and my erection issues, but recently Iāve been struggling again with erections. Itās frustrating as I thought it was solved, but also not disheartening as I know this is not a permanent issue and can be solved
I have experienced the same thing. The only thing I can say helps me is when I view any erection as a success. That way I donāt put so much pressure on myself. The less pressure I put on my self the better sex I have.