# We still haven’t had sex but I know he’s wanting to **URL:** \ **Category:** 🏳️‍🌈 LGBT+\ **Created:** [March 21, 2025, 9:41pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/we-still-haven-t-had-sex-but-i-know-he-s-wanting-to/8954 "2025-03-21T21:41:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![influential-orange-lark](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/influential-orange-lark/32/426201_2.png) [@influential-orange-lark](https://community.mymojo.com/u/influential-orange-lark)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2025, 9:41pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/we-still-haven-t-had-sex-but-i-know-he-s-wanting-to/8954/1 "2025-03-21T21:41:37Z")
I’m meeting a guy I really like tomorrow and I know he likes me and I’m so worried that it might lead to sex and I will disappoint him by not being able to get hard. A big part of me wants to cancel and then make excuses and avoid him but I know he’s a really special guy and I’d love to date him. I wish I didn’t have this issue it’s such a barrier to my happiness. ---
**Author:** ![hadi-mojo](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/hadi-mojo/32/399592_2.png) [@hadi-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/hadi-mojo)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2025, 10:36am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/we-still-haven-t-had-sex-but-i-know-he-s-wanting-to/8954/2 "2025-03-22T10:36:53Z")
Hey good luck tomorrow! Have you considered just talking to him about your fear of disappointing him? ---
**Author:** ![superb-fuchsia-asp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e5b9ba/32.png) [@superb-fuchsia-asp](https://community.mymojo.com/u/superb-fuchsia-asp)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2025, 10:10pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/we-still-haven-t-had-sex-but-i-know-he-s-wanting-to/8954/3 "2025-03-23T22:10:38Z")
I’d bet he has similar nerves as well. Talk. A conversation about this in a secluded cafe will be way less embarrassing than when you’re naked….