What have you realized is in your erotic template that you didn’t know about before this lesson? What are you most interested in exploring next?
I see the tension of the forbidden fruit. How I get arroused by being sneaky with my porn. But then also the guilt and risk of it too. Good to see it’s normal but not sure how to reconcile or have sexual integrity around those conflicting things.
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My erotic fantasies and why am i attracted to certain themes.
I want to get away from porn and being comfortable with my sexual side when I’m alone. I feel like I don’t know how to be with my partner and I’m disappointing her and I spiar. Evan though it’s only been a month or so
interesting to start to understand that what I thought were kinks and things that made me weird are actually very similar to other people; albeit in slightly different combinations and strengths.
i’m discovering that there’s so much more to just porn and there is a lot to experience with partners, each with different enjoyments. not all girls like the same thing
A major cornerstone of it is boredom. When I am not really doing anything is when I am most drawn to porn
I think I find a bedroom at night the least erotic for me, which can make it difficult with your partner during a working week. I like daytime, I like when I am bored but not when I am tired. Knowing this takes away some of the blame and shame of not being aroused