# What do you want to gain from this course? **URL:** \ **Category:** ❓ Course questions\ **Tags:** course-question\ **Created:** [December 17, 2024, 10:28am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406 "2024-12-17T10:28:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 75
**Author:** ![aggregate-emerald-anglerfish](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/aggregate-emerald-anglerfish/32/373853_2.png) [@aggregate-emerald-anglerfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/aggregate-emerald-anglerfish)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2025, 11:02pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1488 "2025-10-29T23:02:50Z")
Porn skews my perception of reality. I have used it compulsively despite many negative results. ---
**Author:** ![fixed-aqua-gamefowl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/6de8d8/32.png) [@fixed-aqua-gamefowl](https://community.mymojo.com/u/fixed-aqua-gamefowl)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2025, 5:08am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1489 "2025-10-30T05:08:06Z")
It’s bad ---
**Author:** ![protective-emerald-rattlesnake](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9de053/32.png) [@protective-emerald-rattlesnake](https://community.mymojo.com/u/protective-emerald-rattlesnake)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2025, 11:18pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1490 "2025-10-30T23:18:32Z")
I would like to reduce the amount of time I watch porn ---
**Author:** ![present-gold-puffin](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/present-gold-puffin/32/363614_2.png) [@present-gold-puffin](https://community.mymojo.com/u/present-gold-puffin)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2025, 2:10am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1491 "2025-10-31T02:10:46Z")
The porn is not in charge of me ---
**Author:** ![ripe-jade-roadrunner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/8491ac/32.png) [@ripe-jade-roadrunner](https://community.mymojo.com/u/ripe-jade-roadrunner)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2025, 4:01am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1492 "2025-10-31T04:01:09Z")
Reduce the porn I watch ---
**Author:** ![close-amaranth-hedgehog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/3e96dc/32.png) [@close-amaranth-hedgehog](https://community.mymojo.com/u/close-amaranth-hedgehog)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2025, 11:53am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1493 "2025-11-01T11:53:56Z")
I don’t want to watch anymore ---
**Author:** ![arbitrary-violet-wolf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/87869e/32.png) [@arbitrary-violet-wolf](https://community.mymojo.com/u/arbitrary-violet-wolf)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2025, 6:39am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1494 "2025-11-02T06:39:22Z")
A 20 minute porn scene takes 4-8 hours to record. It’s not an accurate representation of sex and it doesn’t need to control me ---
**Author:** ![ripe-jade-roadrunner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/8491ac/32.png) [@ripe-jade-roadrunner](https://community.mymojo.com/u/ripe-jade-roadrunner)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2025, 11:38am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1495 "2025-11-03T11:38:43Z")
I don’t know why I watch it ---
**Author:** ![sophisticated-azure-dinosaur](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/51bf81/32.png) [@sophisticated-azure-dinosaur](https://community.mymojo.com/u/sophisticated-azure-dinosaur)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2025, 10:12pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1496 "2025-11-03T22:12:56Z")
I want to reduce the times i watch porn ---
**Author:** ![contemporary-fuchsia-octopus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4bbf92/32.png) [@contemporary-fuchsia-octopus](https://community.mymojo.com/u/contemporary-fuchsia-octopus)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2025, 1:34am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1497 "2025-11-04T01:34:39Z")
It’s important to remember that porn is edited and not real life ---
**Author:** ![swift-violet-gopher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@swift-violet-gopher](https://community.mymojo.com/u/swift-violet-gopher)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2025, 4:56am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1498 "2025-11-04T04:56:57Z")
Super solid discussion. There was a science vs podcast that they out a ton of masturbation tropes that align with this too ---
**Author:** ![gigantic-lavender-moose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b9e5f3/32.png) [@gigantic-lavender-moose](https://community.mymojo.com/u/gigantic-lavender-moose)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2025, 3:58pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1499 "2025-11-04T15:58:32Z")
It’s created an inaccurate narrative of what sex should be like in person which is completely incorrect ---
**Author:** ![fluffy-magenta-coral](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/77aa72/32.png) [@fluffy-magenta-coral](https://community.mymojo.com/u/fluffy-magenta-coral)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2025, 9:46pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1500 "2025-11-04T21:46:40Z")
I’ve got to find a better way to not resort to porn as a way to de-stress or get satisfaction ---
**Author:** ![zesty-teal-finch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/91b2a8/32.png) [@zesty-teal-finch](https://community.mymojo.com/u/zesty-teal-finch)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2025, 3:27am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1501 "2025-11-05T03:27:05Z")
I watch porn because it is safer, less anxiety inducing than sex. I can change that. ---
**Author:** ![whispering-jade-cricket](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/whispering-jade-cricket/32/437156_2.png) [@whispering-jade-cricket](https://community.mymojo.com/u/whispering-jade-cricket)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2025, 8:13pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1502 "2025-11-05T20:13:47Z")
I’ve learned that it I find myself performing better IRL when I read stories on literotica, making my self pleasure more mental, less physical. Allows me to imagine my own partner rather than the body on the screen. ---
**Author:** ![whispering-jade-cricket](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/whispering-jade-cricket/32/437156_2.png) [@whispering-jade-cricket](https://community.mymojo.com/u/whispering-jade-cricket)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2025, 8:14pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1503 "2025-11-05T20:14:49Z")
That’s true my friend. Women don’t need 8.5” and 37 minutes to find pleasure. ---
**Author:** ![daily-plum-cat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8797f3/32.png) [@daily-plum-cat](https://community.mymojo.com/u/daily-plum-cat)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2025, 9:18pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1504 "2025-11-05T21:18:54Z")
I used to watch porn compulsively. About 2 months ago I stopped completely and replaced porn with Grindr hookups (a breakup instigated this change). Now I rarely watch porn - I’d rather just meet guys in person. Two months ago, I thought I was addicted. Now I just see that phase as porn being my only sexy outlet. ---
**Author:** ![weekly-green-impala](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/8edcca/32.png) [@weekly-green-impala](https://community.mymojo.com/u/weekly-green-impala)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2025, 2:22am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1505 "2025-11-06T02:22:18Z")
I rely on porn too much to unwind from a long day and worried I might be desensitized to actual sex ---
**Author:** ![glorious-fuchsia-bee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/53a042/32.png) [@glorious-fuchsia-bee](https://community.mymojo.com/u/glorious-fuchsia-bee)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2025, 6:06am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1506 "2025-11-06T06:06:08Z")
Two words: death grip ---
**Author:** ![interior-brown-chicken](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/3bc359/32.png) [@interior-brown-chicken](https://community.mymojo.com/u/interior-brown-chicken)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2025, 8:22am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406/1507 "2025-11-06T08:22:56Z")
To destress. I find myself reaching for porn when I wfh and I’m alone. It’s like a cheeky secret - jacking off, I think I’m after the excitement. [Previous page](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406.md?page=74) [Next page](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-do-you-want-to-gain-from-this-course/8406.md?page=76)