Porn quite literally helped me to know how to give pleasure to a woman and I just had to put those knowledge into work. It depends on the kind of porn you watch, I think.
I love both solo sex with porn and partnered sex. I just wish there were no anxious feelings and erection issues with the partner.
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Porn gives me a release but I feel like I don’t get the same release and delayed ejaculation with parter sex
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Hi, just wanted to say that I felt the same about porn, I was 25 before I lost my virginity, everyone else I knew lost it either during early teen years or late teen years, I felt like I was destined to be a virgin forever.
Porn for me has been the worst thing to happen to me in life, I was exposed to it at an early age (8/9 years old) since then I’ve used it as the only way I know how to escape and feel good, even if it was for the fleeting 3 seconds of an orgasm.
I’m unable to achieve an orgasm with my partner and never have been able to in the 6.5 years we’ve been together, this is due to me being so used to my hand that my body doesn’t know how to orgasm any other way.
To see you’re here on mojo working through things is a sign you’re closer to getting a partner and being able to live life the way you want.
P.s. keep up the good work
How did you even get to the place where you felt comfortable enough to discuss this with a potential partner and is she not upset that you’re unable to have sex years in to the relationship?
We have sex and I make sure she gets off every time (only reason she’s not been too bothered about me I think 
) only thing is, we want to start a family and that’s impossible if I can’t cum, as you well know
I definitely feel like I watch porn compulsively - sometimes just out of boredom and not even horniness
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Same. I use it to procrastinate too, if I’ve got something unpleasant or stressful to do I go and watch porn instead.
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I like the way I watched. Occasionally, and to enjoy the girl being pleasured. I am aware of the drawbacks and unrealistic filters.
I think it got to the point where I started watching it out of boredom. That seems to be where I started having issues. Watching it just to watch it
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I use to watch alone to masturbate. Maybe i should try to watch it with my partner
I’ve come to learn that a lot of my compulsive porn watching has been driven by boredom and avoiding stress. But my problems really heightened when my primary consumption mode became endless scrolling of IG and Twitter, with a high stimulus stream of seemingly unlimited pics and clips with many different women. And this made the realities of partnered sex less stimulating even though physically everything is fine. It’s really all in my head.
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I’ve noticed for me that there were several reasons contributing to me watching porn, but it was mostly driven by stress both in every day life and anxiety about sex. It offered an easier way to orgasm and relax without worrying about performing
my porn habits come from a place of relieving anxiety and stress starting with school, then work, then preferring it to sex with a partner because of smells and substances and not wanting to get dirty. It’s easy and clean and can be done with it very quickly. I don’t have to perform for another person
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I feel you. The shame after indulging knowing I want to quit is really hard.
I watch porn out of boredom or to relieve stress, and if I’m certain that my wife is not going to be in the mood for a while (i.e. sickness, pain). However, I’ve been learning to masturbate without relying on visual porn. I’ve noticed that I have less anxiety in my daily life when I masturbate without watching porn at the same time.
I like how I’m handling porn.
I’ve heard that it has many negative impacts on men, so I’d like trying to stop it completely
I used porn to avoid sexual anxiety, I think because an early gf wouldn’t have sex with me. When I was stressed I would use it as an outlet. I felt like it was cheaper and less anxiety provoking than having a partner. I often felt inadequate because partners would leave before we make it to sex. Or they would leave when I couldn’t maintain an erection.
I watch porn to get rid of stress. I have tried not watching porn and definitely makes me feel a lot better but I’m always dragged back into it when I’m feeling stressed. I used to be in a relationship with a very big pornstar and have also shot myself which I hindsight I didn’t want to do and completely goes against my values. I feel low and ashamed after watching it but for some reason get dragged back into it when feeling stressed or alone.