What does your inner critic sound like? (Part 3)

It’s my own voice but it’s super critical of everything. It sounds like a little weasel

Its like every insecurity I ever have formed into a voice. Reminding me of every other time I’ve fucked this up, just making me even more anxious than I already was

It’s a little worm aggresive, insulting and telling me I’m going to fail,

It’s my own voice coming up with excuses or explanations if things don’t go the way I want. “I don’t know if this is going to happen tonight.”

my inner critic sounds like me, and it’s not loud but like a silent shouting voice of that makes sense. it’s says things like just get hard, why aren’t you hard, don’t lose the erection. basically just describing my situation as it unfolds

It’s my own voice coming from the centre of my brain, telling me solemnly yet also pityingly to not mess it up again

I am my own worst inner critic. It questions my inadequacy and confirms my fears. It speaks matter of factly and takes center stage. It demands to be the center of attention, and I can’t help but indulge.

A Negative voice that tries to tell me to get hard and stay hard as I get ready to have intercourse. It thinks I’m not good enough to have sex with such a beautiful girl and it tried to make me nervous.

Pre sex performance anxiety issues worrying about getting hard and maintaining an errection or premature ejactulation.
Usually disrupts things before we get started

It’s a weird guy in a shirt and tie being very annoying and nagging. It seems like everything he says he’s making a huge deal about it.

Just me, knowing my weaknesses better than anyone. Questioning, doubting, devaluing.

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just whisperings of really negative things about myself and most of the time it ends up being right. also feelings of like dread and inadequacy

As described, it is like a lil worm at the corner of my head.

It appears and disappears in short spurts. It is not scary or anything, but it has powerful words

A nagging voice that warns me if I don’t stay hard or get hard, that I’ll disappoint her again

My own voice telling me to hurry up and get hard, making me panic.

It’s the voice that paints doubts in my abilities.

These responses say it best. For me, it’s a combination of all three comments.

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My own voice, hiding in a shadow, Nagging, always telling me it might not work, it’s going to fail, it’s going to happen again, it won’t be hard enough, or stay that way if it is.

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More of a feeling that a voice. It knows that I’ve had issues in the past and once my head gets started it’s down hill. I’m thinking to much I’m going to overheat, is this room too hot. I should do more cardio.

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It’s my own voice telling me I’m not good enough, I’m letting her down, and that I’m losing feelings when I know I’m not. It also tells me that I won’t stay hard

When sex is on the table I’m up for it but then performance anxiety kicks in and I’m always concerned I’ll go soft. Worse, planned sex just scares the shit out of me. That leads me to a belief that I’m not normal :frowning:

Feels like he knows I’ts going to fail so what’s the point of even trying