What has stopped you from communicating what you need to be able to orgasm during partnered sex?

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It takes a long time for me to orgasm that i feel he will get tired and might think i am too mych. Also, he might think it as an insult

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Feeling rushed

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The fear of being too much or too bossy. Also, don’t wanna lose the moment and have him say just forget it.

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I’m afraid it will take too much time and he will get bored

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I’m afraid he’ll lose interest

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It’s so hit and miss and takes a while that I can’t be bothered

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Never thought they cared at all, during basically all my past relationships.

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I’m worried he will get tired and fed up

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I take so long, I worry he gets tired or muscle fatigue na dif it’s not consistent stimulation I feel like I fall backwards and have to build again. I also tense up to try and reach and my muscles get tired

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This is me too

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Feeling like it will take too long and he will lose interest or become frustrated

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scared of taking too long, worried I’ll offend him if it doesn’t feel good and laziness I can do it quicker myself

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A bit embarrassed, I also struggle with communication in general. I also worry that it’ll take too long and he’ll think it’s not worth the effort.

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Can sometimes take too long and I get frustrated

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Not wanting to feel demanding. Or trying to explain but not being able to

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Yes takes a long time might need toys and doesn’t feel exciting so I get uncomfortable

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I think I’m too embarrassed and I don’t want him to think he’s doing it wrong.