Using other media
I need to try new things and build up a set of alternatives
I haven’t watched porn in over a year. I’ve been relying on fantasy to keep me going
I watch porn because it’s quicker than trying to imagine a scenario, and I don’t work properly without some sort of noise…
It’s definitely a go-to if I’m feeling bored and/or sad. I’m gonna try the other suggested options first and try and break the habit. Make it a pleasurable activity in its own right, rather than something habitual.
The actual reason for porn watching can more complicated than I thought. Motivation isn’t always what it appears, although sometimes you just want to cum.
 I haven’t watched porn in over a year even though my wife doesn’t believe me I gave it up for her because it made her feel self-conscious. I think my wife is beautiful and I want to be more relaxed in the bedroom with her, but I ain’t gonna lie I miss porn. It’s an easy fix. You don’t have to go through any of the stuff you don’t like you can switch to the next scene, it’s just too easy. I want to bring the energy into the bedroom, but it isn’t that simple for me.
I’m a gay dude who watches porn bc I’m curious to see what it’s like to fuck a woman
Watch out for excessive use of porn to manage stress and negative feelings and when porn use can be avoidance
There are alternatives to visual porn that may be worth trying. Not making porn a default habit is key
Explore alternatives rather than using visual aides all the time
I watch porn as a sex substitute when I don’t have the real thing available, usually before bed because it helps me sleep - just like irl!
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I feel as if porn is just like the base go to method to help go to sleep, though I do find some shame after it sometimes
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Im a straight dude wondering what its like to fuck or be fucke by a man
There’s nothing new about why I watch porn.
I do want to break the habit without stopping altogether.
Something new that I would try is audio porn.
Porn is like the easy way to jerk off. Sometimes if i dont have my phone with me and wanna jerk off ive really gotta focus to arouse myself and get off. Though the more times i do it that way the easier it becomes to cum with mental fantasies. Maybe this is the key. Porn is the easy button. While those visuals can help with stumulation in the bedroom it feels kind of wrong. Like i want to be in the moment with my wife but i get so used to visual stimulation. Like if i had a naked picture of my wife where i could look at it while having sex would get me off faster than just looking at her while we have sex naked. Is that spectatoring? Probably so
I don’t really watch porn as I usually just use my imagination. I’m happy to try the erotic storeys and fantasty training on Mojo as that sounds more like what I do already
I can go easy without watching porn but it helps me staying hard when jerking off
Porn is used for a variety of reasons
That are many reasons ppl watch porn