That it ruins me
Erection should come up immediately and have no change until after orgasm.
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If I orgasm to porn earlier in the day, I can’t climax again later with my wife…even though I can climax again with porn an hour later
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That porn is shameful. Disgraceful. And that it is a dirty secret that I have private fantasies.
That watching porn makes me a dishonest partner and I’m to blame for not performing as I think I should
Porn makes me lazy in dealing with my erectile issues. I just jack it half way hard because all I care about it the nut. Using this app doing kegels and talking through my issues is helping me reconnect with my body. With porn it feels like it can sometimes cause me to mindlessly jerk off when I want to be present with a partner and fully engaged in our session.
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I can usually get hard almost instantly with porn.
It’s hard to cum with a partner. I can stay hard for a long time but after a while it feels numb and then it’s really hard to climax without extra work like nipple stimulation or imagining explicit images in my head.
Then again, if I go weeks without indulging I can come super fast everthing is super sensitive and I can finally come super fast.
I want to stay in the middle somehow, if that is possible.
I feel like relying on images makes climaxing more of a cognitive thing, and takes me away from my body. Through this app I’m reconnecting climaxing to feeling present in my body and experiencing better sexual energy as a result. I just hope I can now take that into the bedroom with partners.
The idea that porn is bad. That the people who I watch aren’t doing it with pleasure but there’s someone forcing them to, even though I watch them fill themselves. Also, the idea that I’ll never find true love because of porn. That I’ll be stuck watching it to avoid real intimacy and never meet my true potential
I need to stop buying into the idealized bodies and seamless sex that porn presents. It’s contributing to negative body image and insecurities about regular human functions.
I think the unrealistic body standards in porn. In gay porn, lots of actors have super skinny bodies with high definition which isn’t realistic and shouldn’t be my reference or default for attraction and being turned on
I need to get over the idea that porn is negatively effecting my erections in real life…. My erections are fine with porn. Clearly the issue is elsewhere.