# What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by? **URL:** \ **Category:** ❓ Course questions\ **Created:** [September 9, 2022, 4:34pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339 "2022-09-09T16:34:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 150
**Author:** ![arbitrary-moccasin-tapir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/dec6dc/32.png) [@arbitrary-moccasin-tapir](https://community.mymojo.com/u/arbitrary-moccasin-tapir)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2025, 2:34am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2982 "2025-10-30T02:34:49Z")
Exploring pleasure without a schedule or goal. Being OK with any outcome not just penetration and lasting a certain time. ---
**Author:** ![quickest-green-cardinal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/6bbea6/32.png) [@quickest-green-cardinal](https://community.mymojo.com/u/quickest-green-cardinal)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2025, 10:23pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2983 "2025-10-30T22:23:17Z")
Being vulnerable with someone else and sharing intimacy ---
**Author:** ![strategic-cyan-cheetah](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/67e7ee/32.png) [@strategic-cyan-cheetah](https://community.mymojo.com/u/strategic-cyan-cheetah)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2025, 7:40pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2984 "2025-10-31T19:40:20Z")
Sex is form of art, it takes practice, but when mastered, you become one with each other ---
**Author:** ![ideological-amethyst-shrimp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/977dab/32.png) [@ideological-amethyst-shrimp](https://community.mymojo.com/u/ideological-amethyst-shrimp)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2025, 9:06pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2985 "2025-10-31T21:06:12Z")
Sex is two or more people enjoying and exploring each other’s bodies. ---
**Author:** ![anon26199009](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b5ac83/32.png) [@anon26199009](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon26199009)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2025, 2:39pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2986 "2025-11-01T14:39:05Z")
Sex is the strongest way to make a physical connection with another person ---
**Author:** ![changing-amethyst-crab](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/57b2e6/32.png) [@changing-amethyst-crab](https://community.mymojo.com/u/changing-amethyst-crab)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2025, 8:54pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2987 "2025-11-01T20:54:33Z")
Connecting all of me with my partner, my emotional part and my physical part! Not hiding anything but being proud of who I am ---
**Author:** ![magic-sapphire-dragonfly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/59ef9b/32.png) [@magic-sapphire-dragonfly](https://community.mymojo.com/u/magic-sapphire-dragonfly)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2025, 8:50am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2988 "2025-11-02T08:50:20Z")
Being at once dominant and sensitive. Controlling the flow of how sex happens confidently but also embracing the emotional side of cuddling and being emotionally intimate afterwards. This is why I struggle with casual sex because I see sex as a deeply intimate thing between two people ---
**Author:** ![thorough-rose-scorpion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ac8455/32.png) [@thorough-rose-scorpion](https://community.mymojo.com/u/thorough-rose-scorpion)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2025, 10:27pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2989 "2025-11-02T22:27:18Z")
Getting her off and being wanted again. ---
**Author:** ![rigid-teal-bear](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/rigid-teal-bear/32/414983_2.png) [@rigid-teal-bear](https://community.mymojo.com/u/rigid-teal-bear)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2025, 3:18am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2990 "2025-11-03T03:18:47Z")
The ultimate physical and emotional bonding experience. ---
**Author:** ![fit-scarlet-bass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/67e7ee/32.png) [@fit-scarlet-bass](https://community.mymojo.com/u/fit-scarlet-bass)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2025, 5:15pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2991 "2025-11-03T17:15:35Z")
A chance to be vulnerable with out fear of judgement . Sharing all of yourself , and them doing the same with no other feeling but pleasure and enjoyment ---
**Author:** ![just-beige-bass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/59ef9b/32.png) [@just-beige-bass](https://community.mymojo.com/u/just-beige-bass)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2025, 9:11pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2992 "2025-11-04T21:11:37Z")
A fun and exiting experience for both parties being equity involved ---
**Author:** ![zesty-teal-finch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/91b2a8/32.png) [@zesty-teal-finch](https://community.mymojo.com/u/zesty-teal-finch)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2025, 3:38am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2993 "2025-11-05T03:38:07Z")
I have always thought of sex needing to include Penetration and a female orgasm. ---
**Author:** ![zesty-teal-finch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/91b2a8/32.png) [@zesty-teal-finch](https://community.mymojo.com/u/zesty-teal-finch)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2025, 3:38am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2994 "2025-11-05T03:38:56Z")
Two or more people having a good time in a sensual manor ---
**Author:** ![innovative-gold-penguin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/5e9695/32.png) [@innovative-gold-penguin](https://community.mymojo.com/u/innovative-gold-penguin)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2025, 6:01am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2995 "2025-11-06T06:01:01Z")
Interaction between 2 persons, with the expectation to reach climax ---
**Author:** ![annual-fuchsia-lungfish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5fc32e/32.png) [@annual-fuchsia-lungfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/annual-fuchsia-lungfish)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2025, 6:38am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2996 "2025-11-06T06:38:01Z")
The sex i want is to have intense sex where i can dominate a position without Cumming to early, and then while resting , to have physical touch like cuddling without pentration to explore each other’s body. And if possible, to have mutiple rounds without judgement ---
**Author:** ![formidable-amber-otter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/2bfe46/32.png) [@formidable-amber-otter](https://community.mymojo.com/u/formidable-amber-otter)\ **Post date:** [November 7, 2025, 12:13am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2997 "2025-11-07T00:13:35Z")
Sex is an experience of letting go. Of allowing my primal side to surface, and to give pleasure while receiving it. To couch the soft and accommodating parts of me in everyday life to show someone how good they can feel while showing them how to do the same for me and praising them for it. ---
**Author:** ![domestic-gray-xerinae](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/3ab097/32.png) [@domestic-gray-xerinae](https://community.mymojo.com/u/domestic-gray-xerinae)\ **Post date:** [November 7, 2025, 1:44pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2998 "2025-11-07T13:44:43Z")
Satisfaction and contentment and the connection to look forward to ---
**Author:** ![tart-tomato-primate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/da6949/32.png) [@tart-tomato-primate](https://community.mymojo.com/u/tart-tomato-primate)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2025, 12:28pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/2999 "2025-11-09T12:28:26Z")
Playful banter leading to getting closer and closer, touching and bodies close, eventually penetration and climax. ---
**Author:** ![distinguished-moccasin-bee](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex005/user_avatar/community.mymojo.com/distinguished-moccasin-bee/32/364553_2.png) [@distinguished-moccasin-bee](https://community.mymojo.com/u/distinguished-moccasin-bee)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2025, 9:12am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/3000 "2025-11-10T09:12:10Z")
To be comfortable in your own skin and the company of each other lay out your soul in front of each other no judgement of your personality your kinks and your desires. You build up the tension and arousal to play. That is fun intense and slow and magical to enjoy you, give each otherpleasure and the element whilst also exploring your own desires and fantasies. Once you climax you feel comfortable in each other’s embrace and feel closer with each other. ---
**Author:** ![hard-beige-xerinae](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f9ae1b/32.png) [@hard-beige-xerinae](https://community.mymojo.com/u/hard-beige-xerinae)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2025, 6:43pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339/3001 "2025-11-10T18:43:14Z")
being free from constraints, open and honest. Doing whatever feels good at the time whether slow and sensual, or hard and agressive. To want and to be wanted simultaneously, creating a fun safe place to laugh and have enjoyment with no stresses in play. To let go and be in the moment and enjoy the human ability to feel and climax. [Previous page](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339.md?page=149) [Next page](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-s-an-expanded-definition-of-sex-you-wish-you-could-live-by/3339.md?page=151)