What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

Physical attraction, yearning for your partner, appreciating the Physical features, and connection (Mentally & Physically)

I see sex as a shared experience and a moment to embrace one another

I want both of us to get off lots, and I don’t care how it’s done. I want to be inside you and around you at the same time, I want to smell you and drink you and taste you and hear you and see you and feel you until we are exhausted

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Naturally, I’m a pleaser but enjoy mutual enjoyment. My new definition of sex will contain more of a mutual learning and understanding instead of me just dominating my partner into a pleasurable submission.

Foreplay is just as or even more important then penetration. It’s about intimacy and connection. Sex should be enjoyable.

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Deeper connection with the other

Sexual tension

Pure comfort with your partner

Hightened emotional connection and mutual acceptance.

I like it when we both feel as attracted to each other, and I feel like I’m wanted in a deeper way

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Being lovingly dominant and guiding my partner into a state of pleasure and satisfaction. Seeing to it that their needs and desires are met while I get to enjoy them physical and emotionally in return

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Sex is a physical/ intimate connection between partners

Wild, crazy and uninhibited, perfectly imperfect with someone who is open and unreserved.

Freedom of exploration and expression

Closeness

Two people attracted to each other. Pleasing each other for mutual satisfaction. Enjoying the fact they are getting each other off. Not being selfish and just getting yourself off

Surrendering to the connection.Trusting that both want and enjoy this to the fullest.

I wish I can be free during sex, which would require me to stay hard. Staying hard requires me to feel pleasure, but instead I feel anxiety

I want to be able to have it whatever way I want, however I feel so to time. Sometimes I want to be in control and other times I want be submissive. Sometimes I want them consecutively. Sex is the freedom to consentually do whatever it is that brings you pleasure

Having fun together and feeling good wen doing it, like touching and playing