What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

My personal definition of sex is having sex and feeling the connection as in the woman being submissive and me making them feel like I’m taking care of them, like they are going to be ok in my hands.

A time to be fully vulnerable with my partner in the purest form.

I think sex is when 2 people really desire each other in a extremely strong way and explore one another’s bodies free of judgement

2 people who want each other, in the moment and drawn into each other’s breaths.

Enjoying the feeling of each other and showing themselves without the fear of rejection.

Closeness overall

Be playful and have fun

Taking on many roles. Being the predator and control freak my wife needs in the bed, showing dominance and power. But also being open to sharing my needs and showing love and affection throughout.

That the other parts of me want more than I want and I’m okay with that. I don’t mind when they come out and want to explore sexual desires or fantasies. It makes them feel confident and happy and in turn that makes me feel confident and happy.

That sex is a place to take off our armor that we’ve put on from the outside world. We get to experience each other in true intimacy. That could be exploring fantasy, a new position, or laughing together. But it’s authentic and true and both people feel fully safe, authentic, and erotic

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Being dominant and in charge. Doing things that feel pleasurable and enjoying the feelings. Not having pressure to be like anyone else

A connection between two people. Being closer and enjoying each other. Letting the worries of the world melt away and sharing a moment in time that is special only to us.
Being truly and authentically us.

Play for adults

Enjoying each others bodies

Connection and shared pleasure. Feeling of intimacy and closeness. The idea that sex makes us stronger and more connected as a couple. Showing pleasure and appreciation for each other.

Enjoying the act, and the ebbs and flows of being gentle and being aggressive interchangeably

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Feeling deeply connected to my partner

A connection with a partner and the opportunity to show passion, or care

Making your partner feel good

Feeling the connection and going with its flow

being vulnerable and weak in front of someone