What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

Being intimate with the person you love or like and connecting sexually. Coming together and both feeling the pleasure and satisfaction

Getting each other off :+1: in any way shape or form, talking about it and going after what you want

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Feeling adventurous and excited

I wish it could be silly or goofy sometimes. Like weaving some laughter in and out

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I wish it could be more intense

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Enjoying more the proccess rather the destination

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Being able to enjoy foreplay and touch without worrying about further stages

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To deliver love

Shared specificities

The sharing of two bodies intimately

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I’ve always seen sex as making her cum first and often, not thinking about myself. My wife recently told me that makes it more of an effort than a fun time and she’s right. I’ve focused so much on her than having fun that we’ve both suffered!

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Spending a great time together, sharing pleasure. Giving and receiving. Listening to and feeling my emotions and my partner’s.

We make love, cuddle, accept each other for what we are, and fall in love

Sex is lifes pleasure

Sex is our time to explore each other’s bodies

Connecting on a deeper level and exploring eachothers desires.

Feeling connected to your partner

Sex is feeling connected with someone I trust and having a good time with no judgement

Sex is a release

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I want sex to feel fun again, for there to be laughter and an open mind to experimentation. I’m not particularly aggressive and that doesn’t come out in sex for me, but I get very turned on by voyeuristic games, mostly I just want to enjoy my partner and feel in awe of her freely… I want sex to have its own space, to be a slow thing that we enjoy and that we keep on learning about together as a couple. I want it to be a collaboration rather than something I always lead. I want to stay curious…

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