Really struggling with everything. No drive or motivation. Life at a basic level feels utterly pointless.
Just over a week ago, got utterly burnt by a lady who was centrally the most important person. Had cleared head to spend life together, to learn her native language to ask her father for permission to … you know.
The Ed issue continues. No libido or drive. The self sensuale exercise fills me with dread.
Simply sharing to see if releasing helps.
The real hitter — when I shared :I trust you, integrity and honesty.” She replied that she’d never asked it of me.
Just a clusterfuck . No break to it.
You got this bro I would say have a conversation with her intimately with no stress
Think guys here who read your post will relate to it in one way or another, you make a girl a priority and she hurts you badly..
This may sound like tough love but if you do this, your girl will lose respect for you every time. You need to have something to strive for that isn’t her, whether it be professionally or personally. If you’re not happy at your job, find out what you wanna do or what makes money and learn skills that help you get that. If you’re not regularly working out or playing sport, do that. Just the discipline of going regularly and seeing the development over time will give you a sense of accomplishment. If your girl loves you she will support you through this. If she is still heartless then you know she is not truly on your side and you need to move on. You don’t want to go through life with a partner who becomes an obstacle to your happiness or fulfilment as a man
You got this!