What stands out to you most as your orgasm blocker, or blockers?

Taking too long. Selfish

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The relationship

My arousal rarely gets elevated enough that I feel fully connected and enjoy every sensation. It’s almost like the pleasure is dulled by my distractions. (Thinking about my body image, other stressors).

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I have sensitivity issues. So that right away makes me frustrated and sometimes makes me get in my head,give up or even makes my hand/arm hurt. And if any of those happen? There goes my orgasm

It takes too long so I do t want to bore them, I feel guilty about taking too long. It feels better if I do it myself but I don’t know how to communicate/teach him without feeling like I’m telling him he’s doing it wrong all the time

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I feel the same!

So relatable!!

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Feeling like (and seeing that) my partner is not as into the moment as I am - that they’re just going through the motions. Feeling like it just be because I’m not doing enough to engage them, like I’m not being attractive enough or something.

Hi

mental thought

Knowing my bf just jerked off n thats why he cant get off