What was your experience of wax and wane like?

That was good very pleasurable. It was a moment that belonged to me. My self-esteem and self-confidence increased

I’m not sure I can reach a full erection in the first place. I need to really apply myself

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I don’t think I was able to reach the mental focus to get a full one up within around 10 minutes. I might try to meditate before next time so I’m more focused on sensations and present moment. But I like it! I’ll try it again

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That was eye opening. Being present with myself, mind and body alike. I enjoyed that. Definitely going to try again.

I did it 3 times then did have to finish to go to bed. Was able to just listen to erotic stories and shoot video for girlfriend

Took longer than 20mins honestly, I realised voicing out thoughts of wanting to use a girl got me hardest

I kind of like it. It became hot in its own way though it did take longer than I wanted to get hard again

I enjoyed it, it was interesting trying to arouse myself by being present with my body and focusing on feeling and it was hot

A massive confidence and reality boost

Massive confidence boost

Made me realise I could get hard again within a minute when I just don’t worry about it

Very positive — got used to knowing what makes me hard and got there quickly. A very useful practice!

I xan see how this can be helpful.

It’s interesting that 99% of the time, I can give myself an erection. But bring another person into the scene, and it’s another story.

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Definitely had the same experience. Fine by myself, as soon as im with someone…nothing

Very helpful

I couldn’t make it 3 times. First time was easy but my erections don’t stay long, second time i was fully errect for like one second snd than 3rd time couldn’t get it fully errect.

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Awkward at first

Now awkward at all since I’m pretty use to masturbation. But getting use to going soft to hard. And back to hard it new. I typically have the goal of doing it to completion.

It felt very natural, my mind was clear and I wasn’t worried at all about wanting to climax

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