I’m bisexual and when I go soft one negative thought is that my partner automatically assumes I must be gay and am lying to myself and am not actually attracted to her. She has never indicated that she might think this and is not the type of person to do so.
Last time it didn’t happen because I was not expecting it and was tired and I just couldn’t make it happen
Right there with you. We will get through this
I was afraid that I was letting this new partner down because I couldn’t stay hard, but we still came together, and debriefed about it, and he didn’t say anything about being disappointed and I have no reason to think he’d not be honest with me when he’s investing enough and being vulnerable in other contexts
When I go inside her I can last longer