Has it always been the same, or has it changed over time?
Cautious Attachment
I used to label myself as avoidant, but I’ve learned to drop that now. Now I know that different situations make me reaction in a variety of different ways.
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Hmm - a bit of all of them at times.
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I am probably a combination of Secure, Anxious, and Avoidant in certain situations
I always thought I was the attachment style, healthy levels in a relationship. But now I realize that my failed marriage has changed my relationship style to anxious. And I thought I had no anxiety
Massively Anxious for me, and my partner is definitely Avoidant.
Mainly secure, a bit anxious. I think it’s a good mix!
Mostly secure but anxious with certain people or situations
With hot and sexy partners, I feel an anxious attachment towards them. But with average looking partners, I feel more of a secure attachment.
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I think I have elements of both Anxious and Avoidant attachment styles, especially the longer my ED issue has persisted.
I mostly resonate with the secure attachment, but feel the anxious attachment tendencies as it relates to my performance issues.
I am mostly avoidant but becoming more secure recently
I think I have elements of both Anxious and Avoidant attachment styles.
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Pretty secure always I am lucky there
Anxious. I don’t know what caused it, but I am often fearful that I am not enough and constantly taking the temperature of relationships. I also go overboard when I meet a new woman and want to tell her my whole life story. I am never the last person to text in a conversation.
I’ve grown to be anxious sexually and feel like I flip flop between avoidant and anxious in relationships. Sometimes it depends on the relationship
Mix of secure and anxious, but way more anxious recently
Primarily anxious with a little avoidant thrown in
I feel the secure type most of the type, but with very strong anxious bubbles