They need to perform during sex and prioritize my partners needs.
That we’re performative and that’s valued higher than authentic experience
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It’s feels like my fault. I want to be desirable and not affect their self esteem.
I do worry about if I am desirable and tend to perform even tho I’m sure my partner desires me none the less
I definitely feel like I’m to blame. From a prior relationship, the shame of not orgasming has burdened me into my current relationship.