# Worry of new partners

**URL:** <https://community.mymojo.com/t/worry-of-new-partners/9231>\
**Category:** 💭 Mental health\
**Created:** [May 27, 2025, 6:12pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/worry-of-new-partners/9231 "2025-05-27T18:12:48Z")\
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**Author:** ![incredible-coffee-sawfish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/c5a1d2/32.png) [@incredible-coffee-sawfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/incredible-coffee-sawfish)\
**Post date:** [May 27, 2025, 6:12pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/worry-of-new-partners/9231/1 "2025-05-27T18:12:48Z")

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Hi,

I’ve just turned 20 and broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years a couple months ago, my mental health has been on the floor since janurary and feel like I’m spiralling. The reason for this spiral is because my relationship hid a huge issue of mine- a worry about erections. My first sexual experience was when I was 14 and very drunk and I could t get it up, because I was 14, I had no idea about the drinking and it developed into a huge anxiety about getting it up, I had several times with different people of not being able to get it up with caused me a lot of worry , including with my ex-gf when I was 15 for the first few months- this is purely anxiety based. I became comfortable with my ex- girlfriend around it and now we have broken up, along with my mental health in pieces, I am extremely worried about my next partner and it’s eating me alive tbf. Wandering if anyone has any suggestions on how to deal with it?