# \#situational **URL:** https://community.mymojo.com/tag/situational/2.md [Latest](https://community.mymojo.com/latest.md) · [Categories](https://community.mymojo.com/categories.md) · [Tags](https://community.mymojo.com/tags.md) --- ## [Quit porn + masturbating or just porn?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/quit-porn-masturbating-or-just-porn/11708)
**Author:** [@thundering-red-gopher](https://community.mymojo.com/u/thundering-red-gopher)\ **Replies:** 8\ **Last updated:** [October 24, 2025, 2:09pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/quit-porn-masturbating-or-just-porn/11708 "2025-10-24T14:09:31Z")
I see a lot of comments about guys who’ve totally quit porn by going cold turkey. Excellent. But do you continue to masturbate without porn? If yes, do you set a limit on it or how does that work? And does it depend on w… --- ## [I'm bisexual but I don't want the dysfunction of gay relationships](https://community.mymojo.com/t/im-bisexual-but-i-dont-want-the-dysfunction-of-gay-relationships/11464)
**Author:** [@eventual-amethyst-catfish](https://community.mymojo.com/u/eventual-amethyst-catfish)\ **Replies:** 9\ **Last updated:** [October 4, 2025, 2:26am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/im-bisexual-but-i-dont-want-the-dysfunction-of-gay-relationships/11464 "2025-10-04T02:26:21Z")
I’m here to seek help in resolving my love life issues. I’m 32 years old and a man. I’m not going to make a post here questioning my sexuality, that ship sailed long ago. I am on the road to quitting porn, but that isn’t… --- ## [Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and ED](https://community.mymojo.com/t/obsessive-compulsive-disorder-and-ed/5072)
**Author:** [@spatial-black-shrew](https://community.mymojo.com/u/spatial-black-shrew)\ **Replies:** 32\ **Last updated:** [August 28, 2025, 6:25pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/obsessive-compulsive-disorder-and-ed/5072 "2025-08-28T18:25:56Z")
I am a 30 year old man in a wonderful monogamous relationship with the most wonderful woman. I also happen to live with Obsessive Complusive Disorder. This issues gives me a lot of very vivid uncomfortable and unwanted t… --- ## [Masturbation with a strong grip](https://community.mymojo.com/t/masturbation-with-a-strong-grip/5398)
**Author:** [@classical-tan-galliform](https://community.mymojo.com/u/classical-tan-galliform)\ **Replies:** 5\ **Last updated:** [July 15, 2025, 8:46pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/masturbation-with-a-strong-grip/5398 "2025-07-15T20:46:12Z")
Hey folks, I’m new to mojo and just starting on my journey to recovery. I’m here because I have issues maintaining an erection during intercourse. I’m able to stay erect and cum with my partner if it’s oral or other for… --- ## [Threesome to share wife so she can get satisfied](https://community.mymojo.com/t/threesome-to-share-wife-so-she-can-get-satisfied/5358)
**Author:** [@regional-blush-lion](https://community.mymojo.com/u/regional-blush-lion)\ **Replies:** 13\ **Last updated:** [May 20, 2025, 11:54am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/threesome-to-share-wife-so-she-can-get-satisfied/5358 "2025-05-20T11:54:30Z")
Is there anybody thought of a threesome so wife can get satisfied, it’s been crossing my mind because it’s not fair to her I can’t get hard, I don’t know how I would handle it , but watching vids, the woman seems to enjo… --- ## [Some thoughts about "cuckoldry"](https://community.mymojo.com/t/some-thoughts-about-cuckoldry/8007)
**Author:** [@slim-teal-egret](https://community.mymojo.com/u/slim-teal-egret)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 8, 2024, 3:55am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/some-thoughts-about-cuckoldry/8007 "2024-11-08T03:55:26Z")
I find myself strangely annoyed when I read about some guy who’s experiencing erectile issues also suffering the humiliating indignity of finding out that his partner is porking some other goon who happens to have a huge… --- ## [What specific moments trigger your performance anxiety?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-specific-moments-trigger-your-performance-anxiety/7543)
**Author:** [@darcy-mojo](https://community.mymojo.com/u/darcy-mojo)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [September 23, 2024, 4:55pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/what-specific-moments-trigger-your-performance-anxiety/7543 "2024-09-23T16:55:16Z")
The third date? A Friday night? A dating app notification? What specific situations make you anxious about getting an erection. --- ## [Getting over conversion therapy 🏳️‍🌈](https://community.mymojo.com/t/getting-over-conversion-therapy/5119)
**Author:** [@intellectual-olive-mackerel](https://community.mymojo.com/u/intellectual-olive-mackerel)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [April 23, 2024, 7:14am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/getting-over-conversion-therapy/5119 "2024-04-23T07:14:33Z")
Hi Guys so I’m 54 bi and married to a women ( married at 31- we have two kids) however at 26-27 I was sent for conversion therapy ( not my choice) . I realising it’s caused me so many issues and for the last 10 years my … --- ## [ED As Teenager, Need Help](https://community.mymojo.com/t/ed-as-teenager-need-help/5529)
**Author:** [@marked-coral-squid](https://community.mymojo.com/u/marked-coral-squid)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [April 3, 2024, 9:45pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/ed-as-teenager-need-help/5529 "2024-04-03T21:45:46Z")
I’m 18 years old. I never had an issue with ED until my girlfriend and I broke up three months ago. I started watching porn to get a release from my high sex drive, but I’ve recently had issues with two different women a… --- ## [Best ways to initiate sex when you're not feeling horny](https://community.mymojo.com/t/best-ways-to-initiate-sex-when-youre-not-feeling-horny/5610)
**Author:** [@visible-azure-hornet](https://community.mymojo.com/u/visible-azure-hornet)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [March 19, 2024, 10:44pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/best-ways-to-initiate-sex-when-youre-not-feeling-horny/5610 "2024-03-19T22:44:46Z")
I (28M) have had ED issues for years from what I thought were mainly physiological. However, I recently had my doctor order a testosterone level test and it came back really low (around 150). He referred me to an endocri… --- ## [The Way of the Superior Man](https://community.mymojo.com/t/the-way-of-the-superior-man/5101)
**Author:** [@active-white-junglefowl](https://community.mymojo.com/u/active-white-junglefowl)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 6, 2023, 8:26pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/the-way-of-the-superior-man/5101 "2023-09-06T20:26:34Z")
A friend recommended this book afew weeks after I started Mojo and the combination of the 2 is powerful. Whether straight or gay. Whether you identify as masculine or feminine. This book is very very helpful --- ## [Cfnm Clothed Female Naked Male](https://community.mymojo.com/t/cfnm-clothed-female-naked-male/5108)
**Author:** [@electric-sapphire-limpet](https://community.mymojo.com/u/electric-sapphire-limpet)\ **Replies:** 8\ **Last updated:** [March 11, 2024, 7:28pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/cfnm-clothed-female-naked-male/5108 "2024-03-11T19:28:56Z")
For some weird reason I’m into CFNM. Anybody else? --- ## [Psyching myself out of amazing sex](https://community.mymojo.com/t/psyching-myself-out-of-amazing-sex/4580)
**Author:** [@parallel-rose-guineafowl](https://community.mymojo.com/u/parallel-rose-guineafowl)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [February 14, 2024, 7:09pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/psyching-myself-out-of-amazing-sex/4580 "2024-02-14T19:09:29Z")
So I’ve been flirting with a guy on the apps. He’s partnered/open, so strictly sexual. Today we connected between work meetings, I was horny and he was down to bottom, yes! When he opened the door he was even more attr… --- ## [20 years old and can’t get hard with my girlfriend](https://community.mymojo.com/t/20-years-old-and-can-t-get-hard-with-my-girlfriend/5482)
**Author:** [@quintessential-azure-warbler](https://community.mymojo.com/u/quintessential-azure-warbler)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [February 10, 2024, 9:43pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/20-years-old-and-can-t-get-hard-with-my-girlfriend/5482 "2024-02-10T21:43:44Z")
I suppose it’s easier to get help with my issue if you guys understand the whole story so bear with me. The first time I was going to have sex was when I was 17 with my ex girlfriend, I couldn’t get hard but since this w… --- ## [Non penetrative sex idea](https://community.mymojo.com/t/non-penetrative-sex-idea/5400)
**Author:** [@noisy-coffee-boar](https://community.mymojo.com/u/noisy-coffee-boar)\ **Replies:** 28\ **Last updated:** [February 10, 2024, 9:33pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/non-penetrative-sex-idea/5400 "2024-02-10T21:33:22Z")
Been doing the course for 3 weeks now and it would seem to me that my one of my main problems is worrying that I won’t get an erection during sex which of course comes true. The teachings of app suggests that learning … --- ## [Cruising for sex](https://community.mymojo.com/t/cruising-for-sex/3488)
**Author:** [@anon34403379](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon34403379)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [February 3, 2024, 7:07pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/cruising-for-sex/3488 "2024-02-03T19:07:27Z")
I spent most of my day yesterday touring several local cruising parks and found the experience pretty terrorizing. I never got close to being hit on, but just the sneaking around and getting way off the beaten path where… --- ## [Advice on recent experience with performance anxiety](https://community.mymojo.com/t/advice-on-recent-experience-with-performance-anxiety/5417)
**Author:** [@urgent-coral-tarsier](https://community.mymojo.com/u/urgent-coral-tarsier)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [January 28, 2024, 6:49pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/advice-on-recent-experience-with-performance-anxiety/5417 "2024-01-28T18:49:35Z")
So, my girlfriend and I can rarely find time when we can really be intimate, and one of those times was just now. I could not get hard and instead came twice trying to get hard, and I feel like she took it very personall… --- ## [Has anyone found excessive masturbation is the cause of ED](https://community.mymojo.com/t/has-anyone-found-excessive-masturbation-is-the-cause-of-ed/5382)
**Author:** [@complex-turquoise-possum](https://community.mymojo.com/u/complex-turquoise-possum)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [January 18, 2024, 2:03am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/has-anyone-found-excessive-masturbation-is-the-cause-of-ed/5382 "2024-01-18T02:03:09Z")
Hello I have written the community to see if anybody has had a similar experience. For the past tens years or so I have been doing an excessive amount of masturbating and now I find that my erection has become weaker and… --- ## [No erections at threesomes & moresomes](https://community.mymojo.com/t/no-erections-at-threesomes-moresomes/5394)
**Author:** [@increasing-peach-wildebeest](https://community.mymojo.com/u/increasing-peach-wildebeest)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [January 17, 2024, 10:32am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/no-erections-at-threesomes-moresomes/5394 "2024-01-17T10:32:23Z")
Hi guys, My partner and I have been in a monogamous relationship for the last 11 years and have always had great sex the two us. In the last 6 month we have organically started to open our relationship and have had a f… --- ## [Lack of sex with wife now caused ed issues](https://community.mymojo.com/t/lack-of-sex-with-wife-now-caused-ed-issues/5387)
**Author:** [@brave-olive-turtle](https://community.mymojo.com/u/brave-olive-turtle)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [January 13, 2024, 2:31pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/lack-of-sex-with-wife-now-caused-ed-issues/5387 "2024-01-13T14:31:12Z")
I met my wife 5 years ago. Moved in 2 years ago, married 6 months ago. Im 35. Shes 32. I have always had some level of ed issues- for context i work out 6x a week and eat healthy. I first checked my test levels at 19 an… --- ## [Rewiring my brain to disassociate sex from drug use](https://community.mymojo.com/t/rewiring-my-brain-to-disassociate-sex-from-drug-use/5385)
**Author:** [@anon45538840](https://community.mymojo.com/u/anon45538840)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [January 12, 2024, 3:06am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/rewiring-my-brain-to-disassociate-sex-from-drug-use/5385 "2024-01-12T03:06:48Z")
I’m a gay man, 34 healthy and stable. I use antidepressants and have a therapist. My ED issue isn’t really an ED issue per se. Drug use (meth GHB X cocaine ketamine poppers) are so common and normal. I’ve been using drug… --- ## [Talking to my mother about E.D](https://community.mymojo.com/t/talking-to-my-mother-about-e-d/5371)
**Author:** [@ministerial-bronze-orangutan](https://community.mymojo.com/u/ministerial-bronze-orangutan)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [January 11, 2024, 8:30pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/talking-to-my-mother-about-e-d/5371 "2024-01-11T20:30:30Z")
I have been speaking to my mother about my E.D and she had given me viagras to take, they worked to get hard but I still couldn’t cum even after 40 minutes of trying --- ## [Inability to perform happened all of a sudden. Essentially overnight](https://community.mymojo.com/t/inability-to-perform-happened-all-of-a-sudden-essentially-overnight/5355)
**Author:** [@regular-lavender-chinchilla](https://community.mymojo.com/u/regular-lavender-chinchilla)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [January 3, 2024, 9:23am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/inability-to-perform-happened-all-of-a-sudden-essentially-overnight/5355 "2024-01-03T09:23:53Z")
I’m really not sure what happened. I’m not sure if it’s physical, but it sure has become psychological at this point. It’s been over a month since I’ve noticed the sudden change. The ability to perform and get/maintain … --- ## [Control issues leading to ED](https://community.mymojo.com/t/control-issues-leading-to-ed/5334)
**Author:** [@monthly-sapphire-platypus](https://community.mymojo.com/u/monthly-sapphire-platypus)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [December 29, 2023, 11:14am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/control-issues-leading-to-ed/5334 "2023-12-29T11:14:54Z")
Hey, my partner and I were having a great time when she takes the lead. However when I went to take charge I quickly lost my erection and lose the moment. I want to take the lead more to take the pressure off my partner.… --- ## [Anxiety over solo masturbation](https://community.mymojo.com/t/anxiety-over-solo-masturbation/5088)
**Author:** [@certain-gray-hummingbird](https://community.mymojo.com/u/certain-gray-hummingbird)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [December 16, 2023, 2:04pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/anxiety-over-solo-masturbation/5088 "2023-12-16T14:04:33Z")
I have anxiety over my ability to get and maintain an erection. When I’m with my girlfriend, I am eventually able to get hard and stay hard because she is patient with me. However, when I masturbate solo I seem to get ne… --- ## [Performance Anxiety with new partners](https://community.mymojo.com/t/performance-anxiety-with-new-partners/3065)
**Author:** [@firm-turquoise-wildfowl](https://community.mymojo.com/u/firm-turquoise-wildfowl)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [December 10, 2023, 11:14pm UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/performance-anxiety-with-new-partners/3065 "2023-12-10T23:14:47Z")
Sorry this is a long one! So I’ve decided to start dating again after an over 2 year dry spell - Covid and lockdown has played a part in this somewhat too. Before this I had suffered from performance anxiety which stems… --- ## [Sex injury I bent my penis and it isn’t getting better](https://community.mymojo.com/t/sex-injury-i-bent-my-penis-and-it-isn-t-getting-better/4804)
**Author:** [@urban-maroon-coyote](https://community.mymojo.com/u/urban-maroon-coyote)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [December 6, 2023, 7:51am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/sex-injury-i-bent-my-penis-and-it-isn-t-getting-better/4804 "2023-12-06T07:51:18Z")
My wife and I were having intercourse and I was hard but during sex I slipped out of her and my penis bent while fully erect. For the last couple months, my penis curves and now it’s almost impossible to get hard like be… --- ## [Small penis anxiety?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/small-penis-anxiety/5090)
**Author:** [@expensive-moccasin-quelea](https://community.mymojo.com/u/expensive-moccasin-quelea)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [November 17, 2023, 2:55am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/small-penis-anxiety/5090 "2023-11-17T02:55:12Z")
Hi - ok, this is probably my deepest insecurity and the thing that I think holds me back the most. So my penis is definitely on the smaller side…it’s certainly not the smallest penis in the world, but I’m not exaggeratin… --- ## [Performance Anxiety & Navigating The Path To A Relationship](https://community.mymojo.com/t/performance-anxiety-navigating-the-path-to-a-relationship/4816)
**Author:** [@subsequent-indigo-kite](https://community.mymojo.com/u/subsequent-indigo-kite)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [November 8, 2023, 1:42am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/performance-anxiety-navigating-the-path-to-a-relationship/4816 "2023-11-08T01:42:57Z")
I have had performance anxiety since I lost virginity 11 years ago. It can be dormant for years and mostly comes up once I start to be with someone I really like then I finally have sex and it basically goes away. This t… --- ## [Ejaculate During Foreplay?](https://community.mymojo.com/t/ejaculate-during-foreplay/5210)
**Author:** [@industrial-maroon-ox](https://community.mymojo.com/u/industrial-maroon-ox)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 22, 2023, 10:31am UTC](https://community.mymojo.com/t/ejaculate-during-foreplay/5210 "2023-10-22T10:31:59Z")
I’ve been experiencing ED for the past few months. I’m 65, married over 40 years and have never had this issue for such a prolonged period. However, I also use viagra. My issue is that after performing oral sex on my w… [Next page](https://community.mymojo.com/tag/situational/2.md?match_all_tags=true&page=1&tags%5B%5D=situational)