Been with my wife for 15 years. Over the course of the past year our sex life has been better than ever. About a month ago I went soft for the first time . After this it happened two more times. Been to the urologist everything is fine he just wants to prescribe Viagra. Has anybody had the same type of situation? Clearly it’s psychological but I’ve never had issues like this outside of my first sexual encounter when I was 16. Please help !!
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I’m having the exact same issue, 2 weeks ago, couldn’t get it up, like at all, then tried again for the first time tonight… She sucked on it for a good while and no response at all.
Utterly devastated.
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Don’t give up! After two months I have had four successful times recently!
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Same boat! Sex life was decent in our 20s. Then kids and pretty low for 12 years until about last year and now it’s been close to everything I wanted then wham! Went soft and spiraled for about 2 months and now here I am. It was my time to shine and this is going on. Been on here and have had a few successful nights and a couple not so. But seeing improvements! Stick with it and you are not alone! I’m also saying that to myself lol
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glad to hear it, it’s reassuring to see successful results on here
You got this!!
Can you still get it up solo? With visual stimulation? If Dr thinks you’re healthy enough for pills, take em. It could be that crutch you’re looking for. Also- this app has all kinds of resources. The daily tasks are mostly spot on.
I’ve been on here for 3 weeks (10-15 yrs of ED….) and seen baby steps already!
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Yes have no issue solo or visual. I have had success as of the past few weeks!! I did end up taking the pills . I’ve had lots of amazing sex ! I believe it just gave me a little boost of confidence I needed huge win for me. Now I’m just in my head about weaning off of the pills 