She is bored, not interested in spicing things up and has g9t comfy am i wrong to turn to porn after so many turn downs
I won’t say you’re wrong. No judgement. I’ve turned to the same thing when things have felt wrong in my marriage.
I will suggest that if it’s a relationship you want to keep long term, that you get help together, or at least individually. I’d stay away from Christian or religious counseling that is judgmental and almost shame-based about porn use, and rather look for secular therapy or counseling that offers real-world, practical help.
Maybe porn should not be an option for you, maybe it can fit in in a healthy way. You’ll have to sort that. But keeping it around as a default for release isn’t very healthy for a relationship.
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Hey mate,
I do emphathise with you becuse I am in the same situation.
Please consider the advice of the previous post from new-magenta-koale.
Best of luck, and remember we’ve got your back.