Answer the 4Ds and share how you’re going to get the bond you want

❓ Course questions
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Discovery: I haven’t been in a relationship before, but I imagine being in the presence of someone you trust, respect and are sexually attracted to makes life seem brighter than you’d usually appreciate by yourself. Someone who will help you grow, despite how challenging that may be.

Dream: A place where, despite our flaws and not being in ideal circumstances, we can always count on being there for one another, no matter how bad things may get.

Design: I need to learn to be around the same people consistently. I’m rarely around women due to being in the field of computing, so I am challenging myself to not only seek out new connections, but to nurture them going forward too, without putting pressure on myself to perform flirtatiously and sexually.

Destiny: Always allow time within the week for these things to take place, rather than always thinking about myself and my personal projects, and allowing myself to be bad at these things before I can be good.

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The best part of a relationship is having that person to share moments with, no matter how small or large but to appreciate are what you have or about have.
The best future is one where you aren’t pretending to be anything and don’t have to lie to yourself about where you or the relationship is at. When you can be content, I think that is the best future.
I will commit to this by continuing to work on my ownership and my control of my life and happiness. Continuing to put myself as a priority knowing that I will naturally care for others.
My commitment to this is to spend time every day focussing on my own thoughts through breathing, therapy, exercise, diet all of these things will out myself high in my priorities.