Awesome Success Story

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Struggled with psych ED from age 23-now (30). For a few years I just used erection pills to cope. Now I’ve dedicated myself intensely to this process.

Meditations and body scans help me massively. Characterizing the critic and coach help me massively. And not shitting on the critic because I realize it’s there to protect me, but showing it love and hugging it and letting it know we’re safe now.

Saturday night met somebody and she came back to my place. A lot of sensual touch and massaging, when it came to sex I started losing my erection putting the condom on. Once it came on I wasn’t hard enough to penetrate.

Which normally happens. But this time I didn’t panic, I leaned back on all of the tools we’ve learned here. And all of the lessons here taught me it’s ok. It’s just not that big of a deal.

So I went back to sensual touch, and I pulled back at some point and let her touch me and I was enjoying receiving all of it. We went to have sex again and I lost my erection.

Which is normal for my first time with a new partner. But instead of panicking, I told her let’s relax for a bit. We laid down and were talking for a few mins, started touching her again, and next thing you know - boom.

Had sex, finished. Then she wanted to go again which I thought would be impossible. But I trusted my body and sure enough it worked. And we went again. And again.

We had sex four times to full orgasm, and each time I got harder and harder.

It was such an amazing experience to see the progress of this work paying off.

This has always been a brutal weight weighing on me, destroying my confidence, making me avoid social encounters and absolutely hate myself.

This program is worth every dollar and more. And when I work this program well, in addition to more meditation and physical exercise, the results are phenomenal.

I can’t believe I could be cured of this issue that seemed like a lifelong death sentence.

God damn it feels good. And I wish anyone reading this a vigorous application of this program. There is hope and we do recover.

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Thank you for sharing this! Really happy for your progress!

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Did you do we the exercises and meditations daily? What else did you hat you thought helped you as I’m going through the same at the moment, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t, but I struggle to not get into the ‘flight or fight’ thought. Then I end up having a teaching heart beat and shaking. When we do manage to have sex, sometimes i think I rush through it so I don’t have CJ since to lose the erection. It’s massively affecting my life so much and it’s very disheartening

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Hang in there, been married 5 years and together 11 with my current partner and I’m going through a round of psych ED myself now. You just have to trust your environment and your body enough to forget that it’s there if it makes sense? Whenever I focus on my erection it pretty much goes away. Cutting out all porn and masturbation if you do that’s good too.

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I don’t watch porn or masturbate. What exercises help you must as I’m getting so frustrated but my wife has been very understanding and tries to reassure me,

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What would you say were the most valuable activities that you used on this app to help you overcome psychological Ed?

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4 times?! My guy you’re a stud! Way to go! I’m so thrilled for you and thank you for sharing.

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That scenario is exactly what happens with me first time with a partner but i struggle to get past it fue to the feelings of shame and inadequacy that come with it. Did you actually address the issue with her so she understood what was going on or just not even acknowledge it and wait to be relaxed enough to carry on?

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Sounds like exactly what happens with me, I’m not quite sure how to use the meditation stuff in that situation as I can’t imagine just starting the box breaths is particularly a turn on for the lady