Can’t get erect when about to have sex

I’m 18 years old and I can’t get erect when about to have a sexual interaction, most of my friends say they get hard when kissing a girl however I don’t even get erect when kissing.

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Same here man, 19 years old and feel barely anything happening during foreplay or kissing. But I guess thats what we are all here for right ?

We’re all working through it. I’m 20 and I seem to have the same problem. I think it’s all in my head though. You’re not alone man keep up the work and just keep trying

Yeah man I’m the same, think working on everything the app has to offer will hopefully help

Do you watch a lot of porn for masturbation? If so that can be a big issue as your mind is associating getting hard with porn. When your with your partner the brain says this ain’t what gets me hard. I had the same issue as drifted apart and we stopped having sex entirely. We decided to work on things and the first thing I did is get the rid of porn and did my thing imagining my wife. Tried this for 5 days and then bam all engines running bro.

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Until you are older you won’t understand how fucked porn as a concept really is. All this education and consideration for womens’ sexuality is present and important, but schools/sex education/parents need to really present the realities for males as they navigate this electronic drug button of ecstasy.