I have been seeing someone for a few weeks and going with the flow. We are intimate and I am enjoying myself but won’t become hard. Then while we sleep, I wake and I am rock solid. Trying to remain positive and work through but seriously dents the confidence.
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I hear you man. I was seeing a woman for just over 1 month and the first time we were together I was anxious about not getting it up, and what do ya know, that happened haha. We tried again later and I got it going but I told her that happens if I get in my head sometimes. Had sex several more times but she ended up breaking it off because she didn’t want to deal with it. I tend to get hard easily when there is no “pressure” of having sex like she’s just standing in front of me in line at a grocery store and I’m ready then get in bed and I’m an anxious wreck.
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Fuck that’s my life man it sucks sorry she didn’t hang around. A good chick should be understanding. I’m trying to overcome all this shit how I’ve had it for years never had an issue when I was younger
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At the moment she is open and honest and patient. Trying Mojo as a different approach. Fingers crossed things improve.