Hey guys been having some trouble getting an erection. Basically last week I had sex with my wife and it was great. No trouble maintaining the erection and my libido was great. This week my libido was trash. No desire for sex and I barely had any erections. I noticed this so I tried to have some fantasy thoughts throughout the week. These will usually keep me in the mood. But even these fantasies didn’t do anything. I had no erections. I even decided to look at porn to get my erection going (sometimes i do this to kickstart the erection), again nothing. I will say last week I was on Mojo a lot but this week I wasn’t just because I was busy (coulda made some time but I didn’t unfortunately). This same thing has happened before. One week I’ll be all good then the next week I have no libido no desire. My stress is normal nothing crazy even this week I wasn’t stressing about anything. I just don’t know whats going on and maybe someone here knows?
Hey man… I’ve found my libido goes up and down like that too. You just have to not sweat it when you’re not in the mood, it’s actually okay and natural.
What I’ve found is the more dedicated I am to the breathwork, even 5 minutes a day, it help keeps me more chill and out of my head. Also, the more touch work I do solo, without cumming, the more my libido gets sort of supercharged. It can seem a bit frustrating to build up a little excitement and then walk away, but after a couple of days of that, my libido is in overdrive.
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