Yes I do and it affects my performance
I enioy seeing my partner satisfied, but I get so caught up in my head analysising what I’m doing that I lose the enjoyment for myself. I worry about satisfying my own needs, incase that means I won’t satisfy hers
Yes, it used to be rarely, then became more frequent now it’s every time.
Yes I am worried that it won’t get hard or stay hard and it just ruins the fun of sec
Same here, the anxiety of not getting an election almost overcomes all others
I usually start fine with a new partner. Yet the anxiety creeps in after a few times with that new partner as my brain seems to suddenly go “oh you’ve actually been working”. Then after that I overthink the fact that I have to keep up the good performances. Then it does not work.
Yes too busy performing to enjoy
Yes, and it happens almost every time now. I expecially worry about my partner feeling unsexy
Yes I do, it stops me from enjoying the moment. I can be doing something which I know I should be enjoying but there is no pleasure sensation
Yes I do, it stops me from enjoying the moment. I can be doing something which I know I should be enjoying but there is no pleasure experience
No actually
Yes. I start getting in my head that it might not happen this time or it’s happened before and it will happen again. I get aroused but then quickly lose it once these thoughts or situations start happening right before sex.
Scared my dick isn’t big enough for her
Finish more quickly then intended
Mostly around new partners that I really want to please
Yes I get anxious during sex and it causes strife in my relationship.
I had a traumatic experience of not being able to get an erection and just another any time I’m intimate, I think of that moment. It’s hard to move pass it.
Typically yes, I can’t get it out of my head that I should be able to do it so I must be broken.
I get the shakes, especially in my abdo region.
I become self conscious and I’m unable to get an erection.