Erection is not hard enough

🍆 Erection issues
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I have a beautiful girlfriend who I want to please (which I think is my main problem) which then causes a lot of head noise and anxiety before and during sex.

I have no issue getting oral but these are things that worry me:

  • I don’t get rock hard in my pants

  • I rarely have a hard on strong enough to penetrate

  • When i have to put a condom on it dies

  • I find it hard to last if I do get inside

I honestly just want to have a strong hard on to be able to do the things I want to do with her, and also have spontaneous sex.

Has anyone ever experienced this?

PS. My last sexual partner and I had better sex although it was always in the car. She did please me orally and we would have raw sex but I did not really feel this infatuation with her as I do with my current gf.

We have communicated things and my gf is super understanding, I am not someone who can sleep around so having sex is something I consider intimate

I guess her age (6 years older than me) also intimidated me and put this self pressure to really satisfy her… but that’s a mix of a personal desire to satisfy her too.

I just want to give that good , any help?

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I’ve found that if I give her oral first and get her off a few times before we think about sex, it takes the pressure off me to perform with my dick. We mostly do it at night so once she gets off a few times, she’s satisfied and if I can give her the D it’s icing on the cake.

Also- maybe try Rugiet. It’s a blend of Cialis, Viagra and apomorphine which helps with arousal. Melts under tongue and works for me in 10-15 min!

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She doesn’t like oral she’s very sensitive, so yeah the pressure is on. Thanks for the recommendation.

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What about your hand or a toy? I’ve never met a woman that did not like to be kissed with a man’s hand on her sex….