I’ve only had one sexual partner (also my first and only girlfriend). I had never anticipated struggling with erections until our first time when it came to penetration and putting on the condom. She had noticed that it wasn’t hard enough to properly penetrate and it had made me quite concerned to the point where I thought I’d ED and was doomed to viagra for the rest of my life. The same thing had happened a couple of times after but I did successful have penetrative sex once, albeit short lived before ejaculating. I sometimes worry when I watch erotic content that I’ll find myself getting an erection and it fades quite quickly unless I masturbate. I haven’t entirely stopped getting morning wood but I only seem to get it when I wake up naturally say on the weekends. I had even asked the doctor about it before but he just put it down to first time nerves. I hear about things like venous leak but I think (and hope) it’s just down to scaremonger young males into buying into programs you see advertised on social media. Any input would be useful, I worry there’s something wrong with me. I haven’t had a sexual partner since her and it’s been 2 years now, tbh idk if I’ll have sec any time soon as I’ve been living in a depressingly dry spell most of my life but here we are
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I had the same experience my first time. It was nerves. And yes once it happens once it makes you nervous for the next time. Try the exercises on here (inner critic, kegels, getting out of your head, spectatoring), I’ve found that it helps with time. What you’re describing is totally normal though, right down to not always getting morning wood
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