When getting intimate with female partners, sometimes I just feel numb, like there’s no control, I can’t feel my penis or stimulate it enough to get hard, even if she helps with hand or mouth. Then the next day, I can easily get an erection with her. I want to and try to stay away from ED pills. But I just hate it when I can’t get the same hard erection I get by myself, with women.
I know the feeling. It’s because of that psychological block/anxiety when you’re with her versus when you’re alone and relaxed. The exercises like getting out of your head, silencing inner critic, can help…but it does take time and repetition I think
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