I was just thinking, my sex life with my girlfriend really has been improving. But there is something that I realized: blowjobs are not that big of a turn on for me. Not just with my current girlfriend but with other girls as well. I mean, it feels nice, but I donāt go straight to a hard on like I thought I would. I will get a semi, but not really much further than that. Also, my girlfriendās handjobs do not reliably get me hard all the time. It has been somewhat hit or miss in my life, I have had women that can get me really hard, and others who will just manage a semi. Does that happen alot? I was kind of under the impression that an erection is easy if your partner touches your penis in any way. Iām interested in ways that this can be improved, like what can I communicate to her to make it better. Or maybe blowjobs are just not my thing?
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Iām 56 and only been with a few women. (Married for 30 yearsā¦) wife didnāt like to suck.
Current gf loves to but had no idea how. And honestly she sucked too hard and it hurt. Been with her a year and sheās gotten really good! We found the best was me on the bed or tall chair with her on her knees. Most comfortable for her neck which makes it last longer! She was very apprehensive to go down as she really wanted to please me, but hadnāt done too much oralā¦ honestly I hadnāt had too much oral so we just started talking during oral and we figured out what I liked best and what she could do.
Now she and I both really enjoy āchair time!ā